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I'm positive my XGF lost interest in me over poor advice on this site. Everything points to this, because I read things she said to me verbatim in a few threads

I'm positive my XGF lost interest in me over poor advice on this site. Everything points to this, because I read things she said to me verbatim in a few threads

 
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how could she be such a sheep?!?
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I would be careful about speculation. Have you talked to her about this? Maybe she wrote those comments...maybe not. People can sound alike and have similar writing styles. I found myself in a similar situation, and I was wrong. Straightforward communication is always best, as then you will know the real truth. [L]
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Is she really that f***ing stupid ?Or are you the Asshole ?
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"Poor advice" would be to post your stupid secrets here in the first place for all to see. You didn't learn the first time?
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Maybe she's just telling you things that are common sense to the rest of the world that are not to you.
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If that's true, then she isn't very bright anyway. Although, I seriously doubt she lost interest in you over things she read here, but perhaps that theory makes it easier for you to handle.
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Were the things common sense? What was her post? If she left you over things posted here, most of the advice is right on spot. What did you do cheat on her? You deserve whatever pain you are in, stop blaming us.
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ADVICE FROM HALFPAD FUCKS IS SPOT ON?!!?!? the only person that gives some decent advice these days is bashed with insults that are not even true. I love you zane! I'll be good to you!
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She told me she got all her advice from Family Guy.
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HAHA. what a stupid girl to listen to these trolls! dude! you may dodged a bullet...
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Then you be the fool for posting here in the first place!
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what's done is done! let her go be someone else's naggy whore.
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I bet she is psychotic dumbass to take anything that halfpad.com nutjobs say! dont sweat it bub, get a real woman - not some mindless idiot.
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You cheated. You lose. Any questions?
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you assume.^
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Is the TV telling you what to do too!
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Or maybe she simply does not like you anymore. Why this need to seek external causation?
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Maybe she would have gone away anyway and knew it was inevitable but seeing the words of others solidified her intentions earlier. Maybe she had hid the truth from herself and the veil was removed. Maybe she did not post what you believe but saw the words of another here and felt the burden lifted, knowing she was not the only one living the secret tale. You have learned from each other to prepare for meeting a more suitable soul mate perhaps and you will be grateful for the time you had together eventually.
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^ who is we? I dont call him that. I think he is cool.
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Pal...I know you are distraught...but do not blame. Blame is a cop out. We are all in control of our decisions, our choices and what we do. No one else is, just us. You XGF is also making choices and decisions, based on blame or not, they are hers to wear. Now you hope she will read your secret and realize.
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social networking and public comment can be destroyers of human relationships, especially to those who are insecure.
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1^ she was when we were together - always checking up on me to see if i added a girl, and b****ing me out about having girls as friends. stupid blind b**** couldnt even see that i was crazy in love with her.. what a complete waste of almost two years! I hope she gets a karmic kick in the ass, for what she put me through.
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One day, hopefully, all you people out there will quit telling your loved ones about this site. Then maybe the rest of us won't have to keep reading secrets like this one. If I'm going to post on a site and hope to be anonymous, I sure as hell am not going to tell anyone else I know about it. I like some secrets because I can relate to them. If I actually thought it were my significant other posting, I wouldn't say a word.
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frank?
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^yes sam?
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Definitely gay. Super gay.
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i bet you know all about that, dont you?
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ok not the frank i was talk about cause my name aint sam, cool
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If you were crazy in love with her you would've helped her through the issues rather than rub her face in your female relationships. If you were with her why even bother having a social networking site to make her more insecure? Obviously she loved you enough to try. It is you that screwed up. Things don't always come easy, because if it's easy it's probably not worth it. I mean if she wasn't jealous you couldn't prove that she really cared. If you had proven to her that you didn't want those other women you might have had a great life. You wanted to have your cake and eat it too, it just doesn't work that way. Someone hurt her in the past, as her man it was your job to protect her, you failed miserably. Don't get involved with another woman until you figure out how to treat one.
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^BRAVO!
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here here!2^
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3^ you got me confused w/ someone else. op
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^2 up. so you didn't add that she couldn't handle you having female friends? You didn't add that you chose your friends over her? If that's not what happened I apoligize, if it is go back and read the comment again and again til you can understand.
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^ I am not responsible for her insecurities, nor anyone elses, and it is not my responsiblity to mend the soul of another. That is not the role i want to play. I messed up by falling for someone who was completely wounded emmotionally, which in turn, made me very passive and insecure. I said that you have me confused with someone else beccause you really dont know who I am, or anything about me. Yeah, she could not handle me having female friends, and I dont need to be with someone so f***ing insecure, possesive and jealous. I just CANT AND WONT do that. I am tired of changing myself to suit some person's needs or wants.I am not a parent!!! I like being single and independant. I love it! The kind of gal that I am searching for can handle a little competition, and will not be afraid to live her own life.
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^well I see zane is back...
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^ ??
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