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I have no friends and the loneliness brings me down so much

I have no friends and the loneliness brings me down so much

 
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I hear you. I've been alone for so long I don't know what it feels like to be loved.
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hugs
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I hear that...I don't have any true friends. They're all stupid and selfish..ok not all of them but man the lonliness sucks
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Me too!
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me three- i feel alone in a room with 40 other people. ive had sexual experience where i felt like i was just a prop!
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me 4...Im the only person I can trust. I dont have a single person I can call my true friend I just keep people around so I wont be lonely all the time even though the sight of them makes me sick
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Yup...know that feeling...
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we all feel that way once in while....i feel alone now...dont let it get too you soo much ok? hugs an kisses
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Yes, me too. I have lost the only two people I could trust. My granddaughters. Mom moved them away, far away. Children and animals are the only entities I truly trust. I prefer quality over quantity when it comes to "friends" and that's why I have none! Gawd that is pitiful. I need to get out more. And hey, so do you! A brisk walk in the now crisping leaves. Swishing them away with your feet. Something babe! Anything! Peace.
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I like going to work just to be around other people, even though they're not really 'friends'. We have fun, but only as coworkers.
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I'll be your friend.
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that's so sad
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I do not understand. In a world full of people, how is it we find ourselves so lonely. It is an epidemic of monumental proportions. Is there no cure.
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Finding friends is way worse than loneliness. I mean they take all they can and are too demanding! Get a Teddy Bear or a blow up doll and make it your best friend. It will agree with everything! (Shit, it worked for Tom Hanks with a ball in that one movie)
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Friends try to overtake you man.My friends tried to talk to my girl as soon as I migrated to the U.S.Don't worry though as long as you have life you will be fine.
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The loneliness I can handle. It's the seeping meanness, greed, anger, manipulation that keeps me from having 'friends'. Women are just as bad when I try to date. Very disheartening to see a world full of people around us and still feel alone. In the end, live your life as you see fit.
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wow
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me too i spend way too much time on cl reading rants and raves.
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Dude! Do what others are doing! Play world of warcraft! You will feel normal in no time flat!
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gears of war on line! locust hoarde rules!
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I have gotten so used to living alone I've forgotten what its like to live with someone. If living with someone in the past was rotten it was more lonely then being alone. But when it worked, I preferred living with someone. However I now feel guilty for enjoying my own time. I keep busy with my interests.
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People are mean. I walk alone...
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I have always hated that song "People Who Need People Are The Luckiest People In The World". I think just the opposite..stupid people need people. I am 63 and nearly everyone I have loved has died. My best friend died 4 yrs ago. I have acquaintances now. My true best friend is my cat. She cares about me, tries to talk to me,understands me, she's sensitive and so sweet. I just don't think I could live without her. I have experienced so much jealousy and betrayal from people till I would just rather be alone. It is very difficult to find a real true friend without ulterior motives. I feel sad sometimes because I would love to have friends to talk to an do things with, but now I just read CL rants and raves to see what other lonely people are doing and thinking.
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If you want something, you have to give it away. I was dead broke, but I had a job. I found others who were worse and I gave them money. Suddenly, money came to me from unexpected places. My mother died, my son died, my daughter-in-law and my father died, all close together. I gave of my time to those worse off than me. I got back acquaintances who became close friends over time. It takes understanding that you have to realize it's not only about you. There are people who are starving for a touch, a kind word, the hand of friendship. Give it freely and you will get it back. I know this to be true. I've been there.
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I feel you, I try so hard to be social but it takes too much energy to hide the sadness. Anti-depressants numb it and not much else. I have found that religion helps, but thats a struggle and a large leap of faith. I seem to be most content alone but it does get old.
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I wish you were all here with me right now. then we could be lonely...together
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are you any better yet?
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me either...
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If you have the ability to express yourself like this on this site, then you have the ability to go out and make a friend.
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I am your friend... I love you... God loves you...
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I know that feeling all too well...Im here if you need someone hugs
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Damn did I post this I'm married but yet so alone. I'm disable no money, no friends cause I can't do all the work that I used to do for free. I know where your comming fromI have no not even one friend left, most of the time i wish I would not wake up
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My Fiance has no friends and I know it secretly hurts him when I meet up with my friends once a month. He says friends just use and hurt you. I wish he had different experiences with friends. I wish he had a few good ones. He deserves it.
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lifetime friends are the best you'll find one
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Me too my friend me too...
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me too,after high school all my "friends" went their separate ways and i've been alone ever since, and it really sucks.i have a 7 year old boy whose mother loves making me miserable
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"All I need is a TV show, that and the radio...I can show you some of the people in my life." -Phil Collins tune
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The Holidays are always a pain in the ass, I find myself looking forward to working those days.
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People generally suck anyway...
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I too, am lonely twisted misfit who wastes my days on the internet. Dover
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Wow, it really sucks to have so much in common with all of you, and still feel alone. I hate it. I really hate it,
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Me too :(
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I felt that way until very, very recently. Open up and allow others to befriend you. It's worth stepping out of your comfort zone... I promise.
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You're never alone with a schizophrenic.
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I like being alone. People SUCK.
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especially Dover
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That Pic looks like a real guy made into a cartoon.
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I feel your pain.
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Read your bible. The Lord is the best friend you will ever have.
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I find it so sad that there is so many people in this world who are alone, like US :(
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wow not gonna lie i have a friend whos a great friend but for me to find a girlfriend is a rediculous task and i feel very alone
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hey you can hang out with me if you'd like aye_dee_gee@yahoo.com
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My best friend is Jesus. I talked to Him 30 years ago and have never been lonely since. Just ask Him to be your friend. Try it, you'll see...
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You must be a musician...
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Go to a place where you might find people with similar interests and start talking to people. That might sound like a difficult thing to do (it has been for me in the past) but you will soon find that meeting people is easy. Meet enough people and you will meet a friend. Meet enough friends and you will find a great friend. Get off the computer and get out there!
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I don't have any friends either but I'm happy. Why ?
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I lost my brother,he was 19 yrs old. I met a girl,had 2 kids, she became a she-devil,lost everything I heald dear. Met a man, fell in love. He died of aids. Met another man he was rich and selfish and abusive. Lost my son when he was 23yo. Now I'm 49yo and a Grandpa I hope my grandson has a better life than me. To be alone is safe, but safe is boreing. So here I am looking for a friend again. wish me Luck
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^^^ good luck
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hugs, kisses and sucks to everyone who feels lonely, I'm here with you.
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Wow. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I can relate to every one of these posts. Sometimes I think how it would be to have friends but I know that I would become either bored with them or exhausted within a week - sometimes the very next day. I love being by myself. People suck up my energy. Work is okay - that's where I get my people fix but other than that - forget about it. It has been my experience that friends suck. I haven't even had sex for 5 years and I am gorgeous. I just don't go anywhere that I don't have to and that way I get approached less.
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I live in Ohio.....
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I don't have any friends either. I'm a 35 yr old female. Just been stabbed in the back way too many times.
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