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After Christmas, I am breaking up with you. You are great but want/deserve marriage and kids! You are willing to take on mine, but I don't want you to settle!

After Christmas, I am breaking up with you. You are great but want/deserve marriage and kids! You are willing to take on mine, but I don't want you to settle!

 
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You might possibly be losing the best thing that ever could have happened to you.
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seriously? break up with a great guy because he is too nice and loves you and your children? i guess there is a good reason your a single mother....selfishness :(
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You're such a f***ing doormat.
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Waiting until after Christmas is smart. That way you can get your gifts and then break up.
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Got your tubes tied or snipped?
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OP-I got my tubes tied...and no I am not waiting just to get presents, it's because otherwise he would spend Christmas all alone. I've already been married twice and will not marry again, he's military though and has said he wants to get married in the future so that things would be able to work out in the long run.
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Don't make decisions for other people. They are not kids and do not need someone to decide for them what is best or is not.
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^^it sounds like you are not really in love with this man. not that you don't feel love for him, but if he was really the one none of that other stuff would matter....you are doing him a favor if you dont love each other equally. let him find someone who he can have a future with, the same goes for you.
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You're a user and manipulator. He will be so much better off without you!!
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Can I have him then? I want him before christmas though.
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Let him go have his own kids. They will mean more to him than yours ever could anyway. Why settle for a 2-time loser?
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miltary guys suck
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Maybe he does not think he is settling at all. Maybe he loves you enough to just want to be with you . Men that are willing to love and take care of a woman that already has children are few and far between. If you care about him and love him then let him choose YOU !!!
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Holy Crap that sounds like my girl friend. I love her
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Talk your heart through with someone you trust. You are burning your winning lotto ticket.
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