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If my SIL pisses me off again I am going to tell the family she cheated on her husband and there baby is probably not his.

If my SIL pisses me off again I am going to tell the family she cheated on her husband and there baby is probably not his.

 
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Happy Fucking Holidays!
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Just give him a kit wrapped as an anonymous gift.
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if it's true go for it, f*** her
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think about what your doing, whos gonna get hurt the most, the kids
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Uhhhhh, wrong. First, that's not your place to say anything, for any reason what-so-ever. Don't do that. You would be acting in spite and you will never benefit from anything you ever do in spite. It will always come back to bite you. Keep your secret and keep your power. Forfiet your secret and forfiet your power and more. Your secret, in the long run is worth much more to you. If you tell and that baby is the husbands, then the entire family will treat you like the plague. Even if that baby is not the husbands and it is true, no friends, people you know nor anyone in the family will ever trust you again because you will have shown everyone that you can't be trusted. Especially with a big secret. Understandably so, you ratted on your own sister. Your a fool if you say anything. Keep the secret.
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You'll hurt the children worse. They will be your victims. Do you want that burden? You will carry that cross, alone and by yourself for the rest of your life.
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Mind your own f***ing business....obviously your life is so boring you feel the need to stick your stuck up nose in other peoples business....not your place!
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I love how I am the only one who did anything wrong here. She is a whore and cheated on her husband. She is NOT my sister and I can't stand her or her kids.
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I think you shouldn't say anything, however I don't like that some people are atatcking you for it. To the rude one two comments up espically. A little tact goes a long way my dear. With that being said, don't tell. Just let her know you can, and she needs to stop. Honestly though if it were my brother and I knew his wife cheated on him I would have told him just to be a good sister. Don't just go blurting it out, just let him know (IN A CLAM MANNER) what you know. My brother will always come before his wife, espically if she's a whore. The kids, as far as you know are your nieces and nephews. Untill it is proven otherwise be kind to them. Even if they are brats. There are too many cruel AND RUDE people in this world to be that way espically to family. If you brother finds out they aren't his, but he still wants them in his life that's his decision. And as his sister you should support him for it. Not many men will take up for other women's children. But definentally let your sister know your tired of her crap, and your not going to take it anymore.srry its so long I just couldn't stand how some people were bulling you. Some people are just too ignorant to understand. Good luck with this.
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This is my husbands sister I am referring to. I am of no relation to her other than marriage.
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^do you know for sure???
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Yes, I am 100% that she cheated but not that the kid isn't her husbands.
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do it anyway. cheating b****es deserve to have their lives ruined, and the kid will recover.
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what does your husband think about this considering it's his sister? is he the reason you havn't told yet?
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He knows about it too, and knows also that it isn't the first time she has done this. There are a lot of reasons I haven't told, him being a big one of them.
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^well i think you may be in a position to alienate an entire family, so use that power wisely....you can't undo it once the cats out of the bag! regardless of the fact that you sil is in the wrong, outing her makes you look like a tattletale....thanksgiving would be sooo awkward!!!
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^^what has she done to you to make you so angry with her?
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Anonymous, anonymous, anonymous. A friend places a call for you. an note slipped in his pocket. Be creative. If it were me, I would want to know.
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What hasn't she done to make me/us angry?
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^if you are going to use this as your excuse to alienate yourself from her so you don't have to be around her at least be honest with yourself....it sounds like you have other issues with her and are using her cheating as excuse to hurt her. that makes you SPITEFUL my dear :(
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I never said I wasn't spiteful. People who cheat on their spouses deserve anything and everything they get.
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Bring it up in a group conversation, setting a scenario down with the question "would you want to know?" If he says he would want to know in the hypothetical, be discreet. Not everybody would want to know.
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I don't think you should use that as retaliation. If you really do know that she cheated you should tell your brother. You are not involved, and your pettiness needs to be set aside. This is someones life and family we are talking about here.
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He knows she cheated, too.
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Great idea. You will SO regret it.
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Yeh; don't tell - it's not worth the fallout. If the husband doesn't know by now, it's only because he's intentionally ignoring the fact.
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