ur torturing ur self
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Do they take footprints?
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Only YOU can stop YOU and you need to stop that self torture routine. You are hardly the only person who has weathered such a fate. This is a fact of life, it happens to all species of the animal world on this planet. You can't change that, it's not your fault. But the self torture is your fault. That you can control. So stop it.
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^so compassionate, thank you!! it's nice to know i should just "get over" my dead baby because you say so. i think i can now officially move on because as you put it so delicately, i am hardly the first person to ever have experienced the loss of a child so i should just get over it. really wish it worked that way but it doesn't....have you ever had to give birth to a dead baby? you can compare me to a dog if you want to, but i will remember for the rest of my life.
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let the time flow....don't rush it and dont let it mire you down. if watching those videos get you through the day and lightens your heart a little then enjoy that time. You won't ever forget your loss but time will ease the pain. when it's time to move on you'll know. Just listen you your heart. sorry for your loss
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^thank you
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i'm sorry for your loss. you're not alone. *hugs*
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I spend some days watching dumbassed YouTube videos.
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This is sick behaviour and you should really get some help. Not normal and not healthy.
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^those memorials are beautiful and very touching, who are you to judge someone elses grief process? most of the time they are very positive even though the subject matter may be very sad....just because you may not consider it a child because it wasn't brought to term doesn't mean the parents of that child don't have valid reasons to love and memorialize their angel. i was lucky to be able to bury my baby and have a service....when my sister miscarried they threw the baby in the trash afterward and she never really got to say goodbye. its something she still wishes she would have done different. losing a baby is a real, valid experience and just because it makes YOU uncomfortable doesn't mean its sick.
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^sappy bleeding heart much?
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Yeah, you took offense at being compartmentalized with other living creatures, so we can't sympathize with you now. I would much rather your baby died before it took a breath, than someone in a shelter gas a dog that has feelings and eyes standing right there. If you can't feel connected with other things.... you probably don't even have a husband anyway. Dumb selfish egotistical b.
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*when i mentioned being compared to a dog it was in terms of the memory of my loss. someone mentioned that animals miscarry all the time so that means i should get over it because it was "nature". unlike a dog who does not remember the pain of losing a child or the birth of a dead child, i being human possess this capability.....go ahead and argue your animals rights peta shit all you want but that does not pertain to my comment. i also want to say FuCk OFF for wishing my baby dead over a dog that most likely had aggression issues and was un-adoptable....very offensive and uncalled for. you remind me of christian psycho's that think its okay to kill abortion doctors....hey i have a great idea for you. why not go kill all those shelter veterinarians who are putting the dogs down, i'm sure in your sick world that would make a difference CUNT :(
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