so your upset that your husband is fulfilling his financial obligation towards HIS (not your) children and this angers you why? because you can't get your nails done this week? everyone goes through hard times, at least he has his damn priorities straight. if it were up to you his kids would probably starve before you gave an extra red cent to help them. you know what that makes you? selfish! wait till he divorces you, then you will probably complain to the court how that 75 bucks should be going towards your alimony....what a user!!! what do you think happens to children who's parents get laid off? do they somehow cease to exist? they stop needing food and shelter? you are a worthless excuse for a human being :(
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He either didn't work much or made $6 an hour.
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well it would be ok if he paid his share of the bills here at our house, i'm paying for everything here!!
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^YOU married a man who had children and who LEGALLY has to pay for HIS children....you knew that when you decided to marry him. for better or for worse right? or were you crossing your fingers behind your back during your vows? if you were not married to him you would have to pay for everything anyway....the money is not the issue here. you feel like you are indirectly paying for HIS kids and it pisses you off because it's not supposed to be your responsibility. well guess what? IT IS BECAUSE YOU MARRIED A MAN WITH CHILDREN AND THEY ARE NOW PART OF YOUR FAMILY WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT! if the shoe was on the other foot and you had to pay child support to an ex and got laid off what would you do? just stop paying? or would you expect your husband to support you financially so you can continue to take care of your children. i hope he divorces you, you don't deserve such a good man!
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WOMEN! Listen up. This is why you don't marry a nonprofessional man who has children with other women. YOU become the source of child support while they look for a job to replace the last minimum wage job they couldn't hack. Wake up and smell the coffee.
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Why in the world would he pay EXTRA when he's laid off? It's nice that he's willing to pay but it's not right if it's hurting himself and you. Talk to him about it. Maybe he feels guilty for something he did while he was married to her. Sounds like over compensation.
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Thanks I'm not trying to hurt them, I just don't see why he did that... I paid off his car with my credit card so we'd have more money twords other bills and all he did in return was over pay in child support, the court ordered him to pay $100 per week and he said oh no now that my car is paid off I want the extra $300 to go to my ex and the kids!!Well where does that leave me? Screwed with a hefty credit card debt, but hey at least the ex is got extra money now!! Right?
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^ It's not "Where does that leave you", it's "what does that make you"? A fool is the answer. Damn if he isn't funneling that money to his X wife. Thats your money he should be using to pay off your credit card...and you are allowing it to happen.
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you sound like an idiot! maybe his ex and the kids are really struggling and he doesn't want them to lose their house. 4,800 dollars a year to raise children??? that amount of money is a total joke! your really upset because he wants to contribute 8,400 dollars A YEAR to help raise his own FuCkInG kids? sounds like your one cheap cunt! FYI: KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE BITCH
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Excess baggage. You must be a risk taker.
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STOP POSTING YOUR STUPID SECRETS...NOBODY CARES!
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You got married, you got the man, you got what you wanted, stop b****ing.
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8^....must have attended some community college for 6 weeks.....now he be an engrineer, but he can't spell it !!
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