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i lost you at 16 weeks. i still think of you. i named you Alex.

i lost you at 16 weeks. i still think of you. i named you Alex.

 
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my heart goes out to you...the loss of a child is never easy. your baby loved you just as much as you loved him!
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Ours was named Adam. For me that was 2 wives and almost 30 years ago. But I still think about him.
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I wish you could've had the boy I made my psycho GF abort. He had good genes on one side of his family anyway...
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^ your abortion does not pertain to her miscarriage in any way, shape, or form. op i apologize for this person who obviously lacks a heart.
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i lost 2 and though i have 7 it does not ease the loss, one was a twin to my 7 yr old now and i wonder every day when i look at her what she would have been like.how much more i charish every secound with the ones with me, you never know when god could call them home.
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It was for the best.
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***It was for the best.
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i hate your posting, the picture is scary, i made the mistake of 3 abortions, i'm 39 and regret everyone of them. i am too old now, i have to live with what i've done and it is painful. i hate myself for it, i am an angry person. i am so sorry
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^ forgive yourself,god already has!! he sees your heart and knows you've repented, if you let him he'll bless you!! you will be reunited with them in a beautiful place one day but untill then god doesn't want you to punish yourself any longer!!! he has forgiving you what right do you have not to???? if you let him he'll heal you pain!! god bless and may you find peace..
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^ Reunited with what?!? A lump of flesh that would have the brain of a snail?
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^i'm not a religious person, but i know when i lost my baby i mourned what could have been....their first steps, first word, teaching them to ride a bike or how to drive stick in a beat up pickup out in a field, watching them find their true love and getting married....so many hopes and dreams are created from the moment a woman conceives...do i believe i will see my baby again in heaven? probably not, but i loved every moment i had my child inside of me and that i will keep with me forever...
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i know, i will always remember how i felt like a woman, hopes and dreams, but no one to accept it with me, torn between both, not wanting to hurt no one including raising a child without a father or making a father be something he's not. in reality i was very unselfish.
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5^ i'm sorry you hated my posting and that it reminded you of your mistakes.
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^i'm sorry for intruding however, this needed to come out, i've been suppressing feelings, thank you, HAPPY HOLIDAYS
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I am sorry but I have to think the child is in a better place than this! Please don't be sad. We would all be better off that way.
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^ Sooner or later, none of us will have to deal with all of this bullshit on Earth.
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Your baby is in a better place, the two of you will meet again. Also, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I, myself do not want children, but for some reason i have this itch to help people that actually can't. i don't know why, but i have a facination with wanting to be a surrogate mother. So i can experiance the joy with someone who wants a child, but for whatever reason, can not. Thats a secret of mine, I thought it partained somewhat.
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13 weeks for me...I named mine Jamie. That was years ago and it still hurts.
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