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That's life. When in doubt... get help!
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Not this crap again. Yea we know all about your wife and the money and blah blah...can we move on now please!!!
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Stick to the child support agreement. Anything you give to your ex beyond that looks like you are trying to buy their love.
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you people are sheep BAAAAA!!!!
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WHIPLASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You mean your paying Child Support and Alimony awarded her by the courts and you are paying her above and beyond what the courts have ordered you to pay? Your not single dude...pay what your ordered to pay...and respect your new wifes position.
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^sounds like wifey finally found his post lol!
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go back to your ex-wife dumb ass!!can't have your cake and eat it too..your probely in debt so bad you can't even afford toilet paper.. but at least your ex has extra money for her boyfriend, your stupid get single so you can support your first family and leave your new wife out of your spineless life!!
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^so bitter :)
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involve you wife with buying specific things for the kids with you, and give those things to the kids TOGETHER (no matter if its toys, clothes, misc. neccessities). that way your wife feels like she has some control and can feel like she's part of the family unit. just handing over money to the ex looks like you are trying to take care of the ex not the kids, and that creates jealousy/resentment.
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involve you wife with buying specific things for the kids with you, and give those things to the kids TOGETHER (no matter if its toys, clothes, misc. neccessities). that way your wife feels like she has some control and can feel like she's part of the family unit. just handing over money to the ex looks like you are trying to take care of the ex not the kids, and that creates jealousy/resentment.
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Your wife has every reason to be pissed. As long as you are sending over what the court ordered that's fine but to give your ex wife money over and above what is ordered is just asking for trouble. Don't be a sucker. Buy your children the things they need and don't just hand over money to your X wife. It's great you aren't shirking your parental duties but it's sounding more like you're trying to OVER compensate.
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he's one in a million and doing what he should!!!!! screw what the agreement is!!! damn how many of you living with your kids set a spending limit on your kids???!!! kids needs come first and if this man loves his kids to do RIGHT by them then his wife should be proud to be blessed with such a man!!!!!!!!! some weman have no clue what they got!!!!!!!!!!!
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^Some Women...more like 90% of the women who should know. I'm not exagerating. But he is married and it's not his new wifes obligation or responsibility to compensate financially for him paying child support or for him to pay additional over what the courts have ordered. Child support is not a single entity. Child support is a burden placed on both parents and is divided by the incomes of both parents. The mother and the father. The woman typically gets the children because "She" wants it that way. If this mans new wife is complaining only of the "extra" he is paying, then he needs to respect his new wife. His new wife is not complaining of Child Support. Just the additional amounts he is paying over what the court ordered amount is.
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^HEY NEW WIFE!!!!....we know its you! you are the one who put his car payment on your credit card...THAT WAS YOUR MISTAKE.....you married a man with children.......THAT WAS YOUR MISTAKE.....you may not think of it this way but they are now your children too, and your financial responsibility is to them....THAT WAS YOUR MISTAKE!!!! in fact you sound like a whiny bItCh who is heading for a divorce if she doesn't SHUT UP. i really hope he reads your posts :) then he would know what an uncaring cUnT he married!!!
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Love them more? LMAO! They aren't related to her! Be happy she cares about them at all.
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^if you marry someone with children they are automatically related to you.... they are your STEP CHILDREN dumbAss!!!
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It is nice of you to want to help the kids more but don't just keep giving you ex money. Your new wife may be jealous but she could also be worried that you are allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. I like the comment about going shopping with her for things for the kids.
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What secret does you ex have about you for backmail.... hmmmmmmmm...Oh wait was that you i see coming out of the street traps house nextdoor?
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As long as the kids are seeing it, not just lettin the ex get her nails done, or buy drinks for male sluts at the bar.
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Woman seriously if this is you that has posted so many times you need to stop, sit back, and look at the situation. If he is not receptive to talking about it, then you need to go to counseling, because he does not know how to balance his relationships, but also because if you are not able to be open with each other then he may be controlling you. This, of course is only the case if you are not just a jealous b*tch.
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Oh wait I just saw that the hands are black. Yep. She is buying crack with the cash while the kids play with ghetto rats.
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^ You talking about the ones that eat cats?
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I think its his money and his kids he can do what he wants.
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^11 thats bs!!!!! it's a package deal!!!!!!!!!! i'm a woman and any one marring anyone with kids already in the pic shouldf NOT marrie if they arn't willing to love those children as their own!!!!!! IT'S NOT LIKE HE HID THE KIDS AND LIED TO HER ABOUT IT!!! SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS GETTING IN TO WHEN SHE MARRIED HIM!!!!!! PEOPLE DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY WANT OR DO THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT IN A PARTNER AND RUSH INTO THINGS THEY ARE NOT READY FOR OR REALY DON'T WANT AND THEN BLAME IT ON THEIR PARTNER AND ASK FOR THE WORLDS ADVICE WHICH ONLY PROVES THEY HAVE NO CLUE WHO THEY THEMSELVES ARE OR WHAT THEY WANT!!!!!!!TAKE A LONG LOOK INSIDE YOUR OWN SOUL AND GET TO KNOW YOURSELF BEFOR YOU FUCK UP SOMEONE ELSES LIFE AS WELL AS YOUR OWN AND PASS THE BLAME!!!!!ALL CHILDREN ARE A GIFT FROM GOD AND SHOULD BE SEN THAT WAY!!!!!!!
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^ It's more like people who get married should take their vows seriously... especially if they plan on having kids. Divorced parents are the ones who f*** up the kids.
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This is one of the reasons you are supposed to STAY with the mother of your children and your children...that woman and the children you made with her are your REAL family.....your wife is selfish and immature. Go back to where you belong if you haven't ruined it too much!
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We need to go back to the tried and true philosophy that when a woman gets married she becomes her husbands property!
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hey, as long its for the kids then your right, we buy my husbands ex a birthday cake and present because his daughter doesnt have a job or drive and it would hurt her feelings for her mom not to have a gift, you cannot be like that to your spouses kids, i love mine origanlly because i love him so much, now i would love her no matter what, how can you not
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If you want to give your kids more than what a court order says you have to, then kudos to you. Tuff crap for your wife. Your kids should always come first.
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I can relate to this from both sides.. My boyfriend gives his ex money all the time for his kids and that doesn't bother me.. The thing that bothers me is that his ex is a conniving b*tch and doesn't always spend the money on their kids.. She'll use it to buy sh*t for her boyfriend who my boyfriend hates and that pisses him off, but yet he still gives her money.. Sometimes he does buy them stuff they need like clothes and shoes when she specifically tells him they need it, but other times she'll just ask for money for shit that's none of his responsibility like cat food and sh*t.. And he still gives it to her! But as far as I'm concerned if he wants to be dumb and do that that's his bad.. As long as our family is still being taken care of that's what matters to me.
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