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My own marriage is open, but for the first time, I joined someone else in her adultery. I feel bad about it, but the sex was so good I'm going to go back.

My own marriage is open, but for the first time, I joined someone else in her adultery. I feel bad about it, but the sex was so good I'm going to go back.

 
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isn't it funny how people with no morals attract other people with no morals? i hope you get aids!
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What ever happened to Morals? If it ultimatley feels wrong which it does as of your own post, I would say don't do it. You are giving in which is weak.
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^ correct sentence should be; " What happened to morality?"
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You mean those human morals set forth by the church? Oh, did I say a bad? Does that now make me a devil worshiper? The institution of marriage and monogomy is a human created idealism that is not supported by nature. Human evolution shows that up to and even including the rise of the great cultures of the world, marriage and the practice of monogomy was a concept practiced by individuals only when both felt the need. In todays world, it's the moral law. But sustaining an open relationship is a lot more emotional endurance and love and respect than any marriage license could provide. The same as years ago, marriage before the morality of marriage was created by the church.
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you feel so bad you're going back for more?.......perhaps its something else making you feel bad, and you need to be sure, I gotcha !!
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no one said anything about the church...if your partner satisfied you completely you wouldn't need to go out and screw other woman. it is possible to find one person who fulfills ALL of your needs, but it takes a tremendous amount of work to make it happen, but it is worth every second. instant gratification is just so much easier than actually making a commitment to one person. until you are satisfied and happy with yourself you will always be searching for the "next best thing"....you may be married now, but thirty years down the road you will find yourself old and lonely. i feel sorry for you :(
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i wonder what the other person in this open relationship is doing?
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Tiger?
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any sex is good sex for you i bet.
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i bet it was your wife who requested the open relationship in the first place pinky dick!
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7^ if marriage and monogamy are bullshit then why are you married at all? what is the benefit? it makes you seem like a hypocrite to say people who get married are brainwashed by the church and society yet you yourself are married......and the idea it takes more emotional work to maintain an open relationship is ludicrous! the reason it's harder is because you are juggling woman, a problem you bring on yourself. i know plenty of married people who love one another and are very happy being monogamous, myself included. you just happen to be a slut who made a poor choice and married someone they don't love. what a loser!
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were they set by the church? so you dont think people felt bad for thier decisions before church?
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The only redeeming quality that those without morals have is that they cannot be hypocrites, unless they are politicaly active and try to foist the "virtues" and the tab ($$$$$)for immorality on the rest of us.
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If your marriage is open, you have nothing to worry about. Do what makes you happy.
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^6 Any sex is good sex for most of us. We amy have guilt, but sex can still be good.Anyway, does that mean I have to eat my wife's cooking only for the rest of my life. Taking care of each other is cooking, cleaning, and sexing.That really would be too much. No more Pizza, Chinese, she can't do curry. OMG! Its over.
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^ did you find her on CL? hopefully her husband doesn't find you and shoot you, how stupid.
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i want an exclusive lover, people like you are a-holes.
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Each to his/her own. Maybe he is a slut, but so is his wife. At least they found one another. An open relationship is definitely not for me, but that's my choice. These two also have the right to define their own marriage. If their happiness as a couple includes having sex with other people, that's the choice they make. I'm sure they are aware of the possible consequences.
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^but my question to him is why get married at all? marriage in itself is bond between two people..not four, or six, or god forbid 12!
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polygamist????
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I guess they got married for the tax benefits? I don't get it either.
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^^^i think the term is polyamorous....
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You people think you are so much better than animals, but why?
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it just sucks, i believe most want to have one special someone to serve and want that one person to serve them back exclusively, unemotional sex doesn't exsist unless you are a paid whore.
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^^because i can conceptualize thoughts and feelings, and because i have opposable thumbs dumbAss!
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^I'll bet one thumb is in your ass and the other in your mouth.
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^Why is that your favorite trick?
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i've met a man that persued me into something such as this but i wasen't married. i've never been in this situation befor and had a realy hard time with it and WILL NEVER BE IN IT AGAIN!!! he never said his marriage was open but i wouldn't be surprised if it were considering she knew about me all along and he tried to hide that part from me and played dumb when i confronted him about it. i've also had another guy convince his wife to tell me face to face that she was his x so he could have his way with me in their bed ONLY HE DIDN'T GET WHAT HE WANTED BUT I DID AND ALL I WANTED WAS SOME INFO ON THE GUY WHO COAXED ME. IT WAS TOO EASY INFACT I DIDN'T HAVE TO ASK ANYTHING AT ALL HE SIMPLY POURED OUT ALL THE INFO THINKING I'D HATE THAT GUY ENOUGH TO GET EVEN AND HE'D GET TO F ME! WHAT A FOOL, I'M SO MUCH WISER THEN THAT ( EVEN IF I DID FALL FOR THE OTHER ONE) I'M THE ONE WHO HAS TO LIKE ME AND LIKE THE EYES THAT LOOK BACK AT ME EVERY TIME I LOOK IN THE MIRROR!!!!!!
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i knew this was you!!!! creep
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but i still love you
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