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I am afraid of watching my much older husband grow very old and feeble and die.  I love him so much the thought of it tears me apart I cannot live without him.

I am afraid of watching my much older husband grow very old and feeble and die. I love him so much the thought of it tears me apart I cannot live without him.

 
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i feel the same way about my husband, that's why i told him i want children! i don't want to be left all alone....
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Bones?
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It is hard, but just cherish the time you have with him. That is one of the cons of marrying someone so much older. The pros are much more abundant though:)
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I'm sure that's the way my GF is going to feel about me. It bothers me now. I'm older than her, but I don't think it has come to a realization to her yet. Some day it will. I'm not going to bring up the idea. I'll wait for her.
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this really hit home because i am 13 yrs older than her, plus my health has deteriorated over the last few yrs, and it has made me realize that i will leave her alone but the time we have together is so very precious,,
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You are just worried that his crank will shrivel up and fall off.
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^like yours has???
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About 30 years older. I was 49, she was 19. So mature. Married for 11 years. She got fat, found another woman who was going to divorce her husband, so they decided to do it together. We divorced, the y didn't for another 3 years. Mine married a redneck, the other woman so tied up in divorce she can't get married or she loses everything. BTW mine and the other woman were not in a sexual relationship. Just thought I'd set the record straight. Age difference never bothered us. Other people did.
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^bitter much?
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I was 40 she was 18. It was she who approached me... I was shocked to say the least! Hell, Im older than her mom
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You married him and this thought just now hit you?^Sweet.
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Maybe you should plan ahead before your actions. Oh wait, that would require rational thought. This was a consequence of marrying someone older. Deal with it.
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Buy stock in Viagra.
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to two up, a** ****!!!
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Susan: I miss you.
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to # three up. Your a total f***ing worthless piece of ignorant crap. Rational thought??? You think what you said had any intelligent rational thought behind it? Obviously you do not know what a relationship is composed of. Start by realizing it's more complex than you getting an erection and having sex.
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^obviously written by a 14 year old boy who has no concept of what love really is. i would rather have 5 years of unconditional love from my older husband than 50 years worth or "time" with someone i didn't love at all.
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3^ U deserve better than her cheating ass.
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I am married to a woman who is 40 years than I (67 me/27 she) plus we are interracial (she black, me white). This, of course, raises a lot of eyebrows and we get stares all the time. We don't worry about the future because its agreed she will stay with me only as long as she wants to. Plus its agreed that she will never be my care giver if I become inform. We will hire someone. We've been together 8 years and we are continually surprised at how much we make each other happy.
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^ Make sure you put her in your will.
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I love modern women. Zero personal accountability. You want to play the goddamn victim so that everyone gives you hugs and cries with you. I hope you have children with this guy too, so that they have to suffer when he dies and all you can say is mommy was a whore with daddy issues so she married a man far too old for her just to feel satisfied. Congratulations, you're an idiot! But hey, if you're young enough, you can always remarry after he kicks the bucket.
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^good point i love younger guys guys! no work ethic, loves video games, uses more hair spray than i do, wears jeans with "premade" rips in them....god i'm getting wet just thinking about it! did i hurt your feelings by describing you to a metrosexual tee FAG???
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i think it should be about how much you love someone, not their age.
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^Most definitely...age is really just a state of mind. If you love someone and the passion is there between you then who cares...
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I fell in love with my husband before I even knew his age. He's 15 years older than me and now (we have been married for years)I think about this too. Cherish what you have now and realize that anything can happen. You can go tomorrow and this distraught is for nothing. Marrying a younger man doesn't ensure anything.
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I am engaged to a man who is 20 years older than me. I am 48. I wouldn't trade him for the world regardless of how little time we may have.
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