I was 29 when my father passed away. He was 61. Heart attack. I had so many friends that lost one or both of their parents during high school (or before) that I now feel blessed to have had him in my life that long. I only wish he could've met his grandson. I love you, Pop! We'll meet again one day. This time it will be forever.
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just love her and be with her as much as you can, you can't stop death or think about too much! i lost my mom, wish i would of hung out with her more.
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Well you need to get over it. That type of thinking can JINX a person. Think nice things.
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How wonderful of you to be so concerned about your mom.... so many do not care at all.Just continue to her treat her special.Merry Christmas.
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Thats why you should always live every day as if it could be "your" last or "their" last.Cherish every moment you have with your loved ones because every moment could be their last!
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^ I never want to be one of those people who buries their children. That's just wrong in the scheme of life.
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I think a lot of grown children feel this way, I didn't think I'd live past 36, because that's when my dad died, but here I am at 53, with three grown boys
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When you're 58, you'll understand that 58 is not old. Maybe you just need a change of perspective.
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Make sure you resolve your differences, if you have any. Just in case.
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It seems that you already know this, but just to confirm the messages of those who have said to treat every day as the last: My mother died completely unexpectedly. When she died I hadn't seen her for six months and had phoned her every day for the previous three weeks, b****ing and moaning about how awful my life and future were and how much I wished I were dead. Thinking about that makes me cry and of course I deeply regret it. Make sure that she always knows how much you cherish her and do everything you can to improve the quality of her life, EVERY time you see or talk to her. G-d bless you both.
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I lost my Mom on December 17th, 2009...I always thought she'd be there for Christmas. I miss her but thank God she's not in pain or lonely anymore because now she's with Dad. I LOVE AND MISS YOU MOM!!!!
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