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I love you, but not your son. I don't want him to be mine... I am ashamed of him.

I love you, but not your son. I don't want him to be mine... I am ashamed of him.

 
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It will never work out if you don't find a way to deal with it. Maybe the son is retarded, physically handicapped? or maybe he is just a stupid jerk like in this picture. If it's something you can teach and cope and live with or change then you have a solution. Otherwise you have a failing relationship from the GitGo.
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CUNT
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He is just a dumb kid. He gets bad grades, he lies, he doesn't do what he is asked. He is an idiot like in the picture. Now your going to say that he is a kid and all kids are like that. Not true, there are plenty of kids that I like. I have tried with this one, and nothing seems to work. I can't even force myself to like him.
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2^ RETARD
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your shouldn't be in that relationship!!
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Is he black? LOL!
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It is hopefully just a phase that he will grow out of with love and a firm, secure environment.
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do he be riding on dat short bus ?
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shame on you, time for you and he to go separate ways, muy pronto.
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your relationship with this person will not work out for the long haul. love or not, explain the situation (probably already aware) and both of you go your own way. best of luck to you both.
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we have been married for 10 years
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Of course it will work out! The stupid ass father chose this dumb b**** over his own child!!! They deserve each other! Hopefully one of these days the son wakes up and realizes what a cunt you are and how you carry his father's balls and spine in your purse!
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Why are all of you assuming that the person that posted this is female?
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Use this situation as an opportunity to lead by example. Is The Boy of a legal age to work? THat could be a good move this summer? I think the Boy will open up as time progresses. Rest your heart knowing - "where there is a will...there's a way. " Love the Child! If you are not willing to do that, you may want tell the father that... not a message board. Give this up to the Almighty, and go you seperate ways if you are not ready to be a parent.
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I don't think the poster is at fault for feeling this way. This kid is another fine example of bad parenting. Perhaps the kid can't deal with his parents being seperated, but the parents never helped him grow up. That's typical of parents these days. Being a former step parent, I know that you probably feel powerless about it to. You know the way out. I suggest you use it. Good luck.
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this is pathetic!!!!! how can people have children and not understand the seriousness of it?? and people wonder why their kids are so f***ed up! you would be history with me!! your only priorty for 18yrs should be to love, nurture and protect! how can any child ever feel secure and loved when you choose a partner who doesn't even like your child??? no matter how screwed up your childhood was it's time to get over it and stop trying to find what you lacked in a partner!! give your child what you didn't have, someone who values, charishes and puts nothing befor them!!
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dude- time for you to move on. sounds like you need someone who has no kids. we all know this is about you. selfish.
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sis is that you?
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This is interesting. I have 3 children myself and am divorced. WE come as a package deal. NEVER would I date anyone who didn't understand that my children and I go together. If I die single, then so be it.
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^ At least your kids will attend the funeral.
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You suck!
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You suck!
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Is this a male posting this ?
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I was the same way with my exs kid. I raised her son and daughter from small children to adults. Despite my constance presence he grew up to be like his father.
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To the single mom, most of us understand the package deal thing but if your kids are a@#holes and you do nothing about it you will die alone. I speak from experience my ex GF had 2 kids that destroyed our relationship because the had no respect for anything and she fostered that by doing nothing. Single Dad here.
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