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I really wanted a baby of my own, but couldn't.  I convinced myself that I didn't want any.  Now I can't stand kids.  I hate everything about them...

I really wanted a baby of my own, but couldn't. I convinced myself that I didn't want any. Now I can't stand kids. I hate everything about them...

 
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What if you had one and felt that way? Some people just weren't ment to have children. Children are great. They should come with a little sticker on their bottoms that says "for entertainment purposes only" ;-)
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Why would the sticker be on their butts? Pervvvvvvv. . . extra pervy with that wierd winking smiley.
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i couldn't stand ANYTHING about kids until i actually had my own. i love mine to pieces, but still have a hard time dealing w/ other peoples kids for any length of time. they are just annoying!
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This is a normal part of dealing with infertility. At least, I hope it is, because I know my husband and I went through the same thing. I'm not going to say that you'll ever feel wonderful about everything- it's tough- but there are more people like you than you know. Try to take it day-by-day, weird feeling-by-weird feeling, and hopefully, for you and for me, we'll learn to be happy with what we can offer the world instead of feeling awful because of what we can't.
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Be glad you didn't have any kids. Just ask anyone who has a teenager!
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My GF doesn't want to ever have kids. Makes me sad cause I think she would be an excellent mother. I would be nervous if she did get pregnant cause she promised to lorena bobbit my dick if it ever happened, and I don't doubt her.
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Hell I can have kids but I still hate everything about them!
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Hey, having children is not the end all be all.
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uh, it is the end of all. Its at least a 20 year commitment, or maybe a lifelong one. If you dream about being a parent fine, but its not something to do on a whim. it will take all your time, all your money, and nearly drive you insane on occasion.
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WOW MY COFESSION IS I HAD ONE AND NOW I REALLY CAN'T STAND KIDS MY CHILD ASKED MY ME FOR BRO &SIS I TELL MY CHILD THAT AFTER I HAD HIM I BECAME ALLERGIC TO CHILDREN LOL A SAD TRUE CONFESSION I CANT WORK LIKE I DID WHEN I WAS CHILDLESS I LOVE MONEY
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I dont like kids either, I have a dog and i am very happy with that.
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I am in the exact same spot, and as another poster said, you just learn to deal with it. I pretend I wouldn't want one anyway, but the truth is my infertility breaks my heart because of how many stupid sluts pop out all the kids they want, and they aren't even good mothers. ARGGGHHHH
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im in the same stage you are, cant have kids dont want to adopt one of the states reject crack babies and find myself hating kids and mothers as a whole more and more as time goes by. i hate being judged as selfish because i dont want a special needs child thats not my own and i cant afford a private adoption, i hate being treated as broken or like a childish freak if i say i just dont want kids and worst yet all the hurtful but well intentions words of pity if i just tell the truth about my infertility
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I never wanted kids! I married a girl that could not have them. After ten failed IVF's and her insurance expired, she left me. For her first love that made her have an abortion at 17 that cause her tubes to club. She left Christmas day for him! I went out a week later, New years Eve. I met a wonderful woman who gave me the most beautful creation ever, my daughter.
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But you don't understand. You could offer soooo much to a child who was abandonded, bailed out on, abused, and all the other crap these babies go through. Imagine having someone love you more than anything in the world, even more than they their own flesh and blood. Its so amazing.
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No, sew up your fish eye and your mouth. Or go lesbian so you can get pissed at your parents dismay and repost
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I told the kids at school i hated jordans, I was just jealous I couldnt afford them. Dont hate kids lesbo
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Me, too. But I blame the parents. We have turned into a culture where parents think every damn deed their children perform is miraculous and worth worshipping. It makes me resentful of parents.
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another psycho on the loose
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