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I want to record my wife when we are alone and how she talks to me. Everyone thinks she is sweet n nice, no one knows how badly she treats me when we are alone.

I want to record my wife when we are alone and how she talks to me. Everyone thinks she is sweet n nice, no one knows how badly she treats me when we are alone.

 
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so do it......stop telling everyone on the internet because one of them will tell her.
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^it's called anoniminity. And for the OP: Although it sounds like a good idea (cuz I had the same kinda wife myself and thought about doing that), really, what would you do with it afterwards? Play the recording to your friends/family? It's just you trying to get justification to leave her...which you already have. Just leave. People will believe that she's a bad person when you leave and she spits her last venom on you around other people. They'll see it first hand and make their own feelings towards her.
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If she is ShIt, then leave, the recording does nothing except make you look bad. You dont need a recording to justify your actions.
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you sound like a whiner! tell her to shut the fUck up or you will leave!
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run, Forest, RUN !
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bang her hard///
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do it, if she hears how horrible she sounds she might change. However why do you stay with someone who talks badly to you?
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cry me a river
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This could be my husband except people don't think I am nice n sweet. Not sure though And I have told my husbandto record me there is nothing more I hate than myself :(
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You can always edit out the part where you call her a "fat-assed b****". Go for it!
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I have thought of doing the same thing to my man . He looks like a Saint in public but at home he treats me like Crap . Do it and let everyone hear it .
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Grow a set of balls, and tell her to knock it off or you will leave her. You sound like a whimp!!!
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2^I'd laugh if this was your husband!
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Do it and play it back to her. Chances are she might not realize she sounds like that to other people. Sometimes looking at or hearing yourself from someone elses view makes a world of difference.
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grow a pair for christ's sake
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8 up, Thats me too, not all of the time anymore though. It goes away. Sometimes.
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If she treats you bad then treat her bad. Be a man and show her a little strength, that's why she does it, you let her get away with it and she loses all respect for you. You will have to be a manly man, feel your spine you DO have one. Stop being a wuss and letting her walk all over you. That's not what she wants. She is testing you, and you need to be a man and show her what is acceptable. Be firm.
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Both of my uncles practically have bull rings through their noses, thier wives tell them what they can and can't do. I hate it. I could never sleep with a man that acted like that. Whipped isn't the word, whipped is sweet, this is just sick. Grow a pair. You are the man of the house, it's your call on whether she respects you or not. It's your call if you are going to live with it. It's sick. I'd rather date a lesbian than a wimpy man.
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Grow a set!!!
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It might do well for her to hear herself.
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Stop letting her.
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Use a hidden camcorder. Put it on YouTube.
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I always wanted to do this to my mom but am way too scared.
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This is an easy one. You say this: "TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT IS COMPLETLY UNACCEPTABLE..WHEN YOU WANT TO COMMUNICATE WITH ME WITH IN AN APPROPRIATE MANNER...THEN WE CAN TALK." Then WALK away. Repeat this like a BROKEN RECORD until she gets it. ANYTIME she launches into her crap... YOU REPEAT THIS. Guess what..it works. My wife did the same thing...for the first 6 months AFTER we got married. She learned to hold it in and talk kindly. Guess what..it built up and she left because she couldnt control how she talked to me. So she left. She is alone and fat. Mean while I met a HOT lady that I am in love with who talks and treats me with the same respect and kindess I offer her. It is all about boundaries. If she cant mantain them..she will leave. And that is ok. In the MEAN time...YOU...can keep drawing that line of what is UNACCEPTABLE to you..and KEEP your sanity if you are unable to leave for monetary or kid reasons.
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This is the OP. To all of you who have assumed I am a whimp and have no spine or you have taken the approach that I need to speak up and talk back, or to those of you who feel dumping and running is the answer...your all wrong. I am tired of telling her to knock the crap off. (I get a smart ass responce) I'm tired of telling her to quit talking to me like I'm her kid, cause I get a smart ass responce. I'm tired of getting pissed, I'm tired of snapping back. I'm a mellow and go with the flow kinda guy. But I can stick up for myself, I'm just tired of having to do it, time after time..day after day. It's "She's right, I'm wrong" so to her it's no matter what I say...then I'll have to put up with the same kinda crap again in a day or two. I want somebody to be able to hear this crap. My close friends think I exagerate when I get it off my chest. My sis thinks it can't be like that...but it is...my wife is competative. No one can do anything better than her, or have an idea better than hers. She never admits when she is wrong. She gets pissed at me for being pissed at her!! and she is more pissed of at me for being pissed at her than I am at her! No one can understand that. I want others to hear it, to know it. Trust me, my day is coming. I will have my vengance.
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^You go, dude! Sounds like the part Adrienne Barbeau played in Creepshow. The b**** got hers in the end... LOL!
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Dude I know what you f***ing mean! I did record the shit and I didnt realize she had my computer pass word and ERASED THE WHOLE THING.. but thats ok, I moved out got my own place and the courts appointed a GAL for our kid who got to see the REAL BITCH!!!! it was awesome listening to the testimony in court woohooo sometimes the system works! FUCK YOU MICHELLE
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^Feel better now?
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Record her and play it to your close friends. Then inform her she is a b**** and leave her. In the mean time look for a girlfriend.
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Dear OP. You obviously are a wimp because you didn't stop this when it started.
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