It is a good thing to hope for but also keep in mind that it doesn't magically happen. It takes a ton of work and patience. If you had a good role model and if you have a supportive family then you have a good chance. It is a really hard job to do when you have no good examples and no family helping or supporting in raising the child. Best to you.
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hope is great faith can move a mountain! ;)
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good luck
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It's a hard thing. I was raised in a very strict, almost oppressive home, so I didn't really enjoy being a kid. I have known others, friends, cousins, aquaintences that had great childhoods, but are completely shallow, selfish, and cannot support themselves. A happy balance would be great, but where's the middle?
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intention and attention, hope will get you there.
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*thank you everyone for your comments, they are greatly appreciated!
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Please take it seriously. Don't expect the tv and the teachers to show them everything.
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Remember the mistakes you made as a kid. Now, you have a chance to redeem yourself.
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the fact that your worried about it, says to me that you are!
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the fact that you're worried says that you wont!
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Let us know when she comes home pregnant at 13.
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^who said she was having a girl?
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that kid is too fat, already !!
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^*that "kid" was not fat, she was a toddler! she also happened to turned into a 115 pound drop dead gorgeous woman who can't go to the grocery store in sweats without people's jaws hitting the floor, and she is going on fifty now! the other woman is my grandmother who is a famous author....they both were excellent mothers!!!
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when the jaws hit the floor - do the guys say "what the f*** is that BITCH doing in sweats???" "JESUS that b**** needs to be in a hosptial bed" "f*** that's nasty!!!" "damns those some big ass sweat pants!!!"
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^You have some idiots living in your head.
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scuze me.....that toddler is too fat, already !!!!
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The toddler is not too fat. Why are these forums populated with negative comments and stupid mindless insults?
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^^no that toddler is not, look at her arms, she just has a chunky face, what's YOUR excuse??? baby fat goes away, stupidity does not.....
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YOU WILL BE because you are aware of what kind of Mom you want to be. That statement alone shows you are self aware. That is 95% of being a good parent.
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you look at the thighs and knees.....if that isnt fat, the poor toddler is deformed !!
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^ That's probably the reason she wears sweats nowadays.
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^well you have never seen her in her bikini so how would you know? why comment on something you know nothing about? obviously you have never seen a chunky BABY before, she is not even able to stand up by herself! all baby's have rolls and once they start to grow it all evens out....unlike your obviously inadequate penis, that you will have to live with forever SORRY!
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Just do your best. And there will be times when you don't feel like such a great mom but don't worry you are. You are a woman/ person/ adult/ human also.
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hey....that "almost" 50 y/o who is smokin' hot...how can the ppl see that if she's in sweats? I'm sure you love mom....and granny...but stop with the foolish talk, already !
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^she could wear sweats or a swimsuit and her beauty just radiates off of her....not too many woman can go 47 years without ever wearing makeup! she is just so naturally warm and pretty it is amazing. i think the "hip" word for it now would be milf :) her real beauty comes from the inside, she could wear a potato sack and everyone would still be drawn to her because she is awesome! she also has hair down to her butt so regardless she kinda has that lady godiva affect on people...she is my favorite aunt ever :)
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The writing ability must not have made it down to you. Tough luck on that one.
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^your right, i hate english and grammar so what mr. fancy pants??? my grandma on the other hand was a wonderful author and illustrator who published 17 books in her career. i never claimed to be perfect but your capitalized sentences really makes me want to try....not!
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^Nice ego trip you have going on here.
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^i am on an ego trip because i admit i can't spell for ShIt? look up ego in the dictionary k?
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Wow this got a little of course didn't it? Don't worry about it. Babies and children are chubby by the way, not fat. It's healthy to start out that way. It makes for a stronger and healthier person later.
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No one knows who your granny is. No one here cares.
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