god loves all his children. say good bye to the church.
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To hell with the church. God is love, and if you don't love him and he doesn't love you, then there is no love. Don't be like me and throw your life away trying to make something work that never will. Move on now while you still can.
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It's really sad that someone would subordinate their happiness for their status at church. Very godly of you.
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^ who are you to judge?God doesn't care about what your church thinks about you, just what you think about yourself. I understand your predicament though. You enjoy going to church, and if you were to get a divorce you would feel too ashamed to return. The church is supposed to be a community of people who help you in your journey thourgh life to God. If they don't support you in your darkest hour, then they aren't who you need to be leaning on anymore. As far as you and your husband are concerned, if you have tried everything you can think of and still nothing. Then you can take solice in the fact that you tried. Divorce is a very difficult thing. God knows if you gave it your all. He is afterall, all-knowing. If your church doesn't understand this, than maybe it is time to find another.I am so sorry to hear of your situation. We all start out so happy and thrilled by marriage. Somethimes God just leads away from each other. Who knows why. lol God I suppose.Take solice in that you tried.God is love and I love you-Reverend Rains
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Read this book: "Consicous Loving" You married the guy in the first place. You just lost your compass on WHY you loved him. It is still there. See if he will work with you. If NOT then let it go. Why wait for the fake adultury of the future to save you? He can't be happy either.
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They are probably already are cheating on you. You're just too damned stupid to figure it out.
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you should have become a nun ! will "your"church forgive you for not fulfilling the vows you took before God ?
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I know there is always two sides to everything. Just something I have picked up since living on the planet for awhile. So maybe you make them miserable tooo and maybe if you communicated you both could get it out and work on it. If there is no effort to change then you'll know it's over. Sometimes you can make yourself miserable so don't always blame others.
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how do some people get to comment like huge paragraphs, as above? wtf? is it the webmaster? or some trick?
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^comments can be any length. Secrets can not.
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A frown never hurt anyone. A crappy spouse, however . . ..
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cuckold the clown...
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Divorce him anyway and quit going to that church. better still drop church altogether and become an atheist. Religion is nothing but garbage anyway.
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you sound more concerned about your church than you did/do your marriage. Do you wonder why it didnt work??? I dont !!!!!!
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Today, I asked my BF of 13 years to move away and break up.
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^Why?
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Simple...Get rid of him and find a differant church!
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I read this as a post from a man, who the hell says "she" needs to move on? Either way it's sad yet completely understandable and I wish the OP the best! Peace
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Just do it.
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That's why I quit going to church...
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Christians are delusional.
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^Most everybody is, so they all feel normal.
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Becoming a Mormon wouldn't help, I guess. LOL!
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