I know where you are coming from, but most of the times this works in two directions. We typically feel that those who offer advise or suggestions or we can even interpret them as "demands" are really just our own feelings and emotions rejecting the offers because we are the ones who think our way is best and therefore do not entertain input from others. It's a trap, practiced by almost everyone, simply because it's the "norm" of society to think like this. It's "accepted thought" in our society. The only way out of this is to listen, consider, and adapt if it makes sense. The opposite is to instantly reject, which is the trap because that trap will turn you into those you are complaining about. It seems it already is.
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^great comment.
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no, no, no,....you got it ALL wrong.....gimme your addy and i'll email you exactly how it is...I KNOW !!!!....I'm always right !!!! You'll see !!!!!
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every child is different, even with siblings you have to handle each one different.
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Brett Favre's found over 300 ways to throw an interception in his career. The end result was always the same though, a turnover.
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first poster: Don't you think that you know whats best for You though? Why wouldn't I think my way is best for me? I know how I live and what I have been through and what I can handle so for someone to suggest something or tell me something about my life is absoulty not correct. All I am saying is live and let live we don't need more laws and people to tell me how to be safe! I know whats best for me but what I don't know is whats best for you...c?
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It's the "you shoulds" of the world I am talking about here
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the you shoulds...and the....if I were you what I would do is,,,,,,,,,,,,
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Sounds like my boss. He knows everything about everything and his way is only way to do things. No matter what it is.
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So your kids are half black? That's wrong ya know.
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Maybe, that's why I'd like nothing more than to smack the shit out of Dr. Phil or John Rosemond.
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^probably. It's why I hate media actually. Sending images of responses that "you should" have like being fearful of everything!!! OMG h1N1, OMG terrorist, OMG floods, OMG tornados, OMG forclosures, OMG health insurance, OMG Obama, OMG Bush, OMG sluts, OMG stds, OMGneedles, OMG homeless, OMG death, OMG aliens, OMG teacher, OMG Earth....they teach you what to fear and how to respond and most people actually think they cam up weith it on their own when in fact it was regurgitated information. Also people confuse opinions with thinking :)
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To the commenter of my first post. To answer your question, no one ever knows it all. Myself included. For as much wisdom as I have and experience I have which may match or pass yours, I concede that I am and can still be wrong. That I am not always right. You see, if I felt I was always right and rejected all others suggestions from their experiences, then I would not learn as much. I am one who would prefer to say, "I tried and that did not work for me" as opposed to saying, "I didn't try that because I knew that wouldn't work for me". Sometimes you know if things will work for you or not, granted. But not all the time, and even some of those times you think it will not work, you will be so surprised to find that it does. I am saying, do not be a person that does not want others to "tell them what to do". That's not what it is about. It's about Judgement and Learning and Wisdom. 10 people combined know more than I know. Be accepting, not rejecting. People are sincere and trying to help. Don't be mad at them.
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I want to know who decided Joe Camel was bad for kids.
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I want to know who says vaccines are good for you?? Or I want to know Who says KIds SHOULD be perfect little adults when in public.
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I want to know why he have to keep paying taxes to support women who pop out kids when they already know they can't afford a fifth one, let alone the first four they had. One day it's going to be be "Press 2 for English".
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^*we
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Oh you don't pay taxes to support people who have kids that they need some help supporting because there two full time jobs don't pay enough and take taxes out of those too. You in fact pay taxes for gold toilet seat and vaction packages for the the federal reserve employees, and baracks puppy dog dish. Gold engraving cost a lot. Don't forget christmas at the white house. So while the president has the most beautiful christmas I at home can't afford a tiny christmas tree or a special dinner even with my two jobs and welfare...but don't forget I pay taxes too. Quit being such a dumb ass. Quit blaming people who want large families. So I can't have a large family because I don't rip people off to make a fortune. Why do I have to have a money to have a family? This system is BULLSHIT. and if you don't see it your are the fly feeding off of it!
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^Is that you, Octomom?
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