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^ actually a good marriage can be ruined. Even in a good marriage people can become weak and insecure for thousands of different reasons. There are people (who are also weak and insecure) that can spot a married person struggling in their self a mile away and take advantage of it in order to make themselves feel better (superficially of course). Sure we are ALL responsible for our choices and behavior and taking care of our weaknesses and insecurities in an appropriate manner. That includes the whores (male and female) who knowlingly involve themselves with a married person.
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Wow, you tell yourself many things to feel better. If there is no initial weakness, nothing can stand in your way. I say this from personal experience, but feel free to keep blaming others. I take my responsibility for my own actions like a grown up.
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MAybe this person is talking to the person who cheated?
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Pay back is a b****.
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^5....notice the op didnt say "good marriage"...tells me a lot !!!!
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noone can break up any relationship but the two who are in it
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bravo to you, anyone who interfers with a marriage should get what they deserve.
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why blame her if he cheated?!
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... however you should count your blessings and be glad you are out of it, as well.
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you know how te get revenge?? Saty married and make it work!!
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3^ I said anyone who interferes--- cheating spouse, or the other trash involved deserve what they get.
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^4. I blame both of them actually. I was a good wife, I did everything for him. Cooked, cleaned, sex whenever he wanted, made most of the money, supported him in everything he did. That whore KNEW we were married and would follow him around and threw herself at him. Yes, I think both of them are pieces of shit who shit on my life. Thing is, she believes she is innocent. She needs to learn she is not.
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^1. BTW I'm the OP
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OP here again. I left when I found out, he begged me to stay. She disappeared but according to mutual friends she thinks she did nothing wrong. I will make her pay. When she leasts expects it, her life will be destroyed and if she doesn't die, she'll wish she were dead. She will never ruin another person's relationship again.
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oopsy daisy- you're right, blame her, the one you married didn't do it. oh i bet he is mentally challenged and didn't know better??? move on lady, it's not her fault. control yourself instead of other's please. there will be a place in heaven for you then.
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you sound very scary and i hope admin reports your ip address to the police! you have every right to be angry at both of them but your husband stepped out on you and he should be the one your anger is directed towards. get some help before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life. don't let him win, be a better person and MOVE ON!!!
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don't put blame on the men,sexier women drive us nuts,its not our fault.loose some fat,work out,if you want a man,the sexy women always get what they want.
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^ Yeah sexy-er women get your loser husbands...hahah have fun tards.
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2 up^, thats right because As a woman all I want is a man to want me for sex. God forbid We got married then O got pregnant and ended up with big saggy tits that exercise can't fix...what then? There will ALWAYS be someone sexier; women and men. So, Men have some f***ing integrity.
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Not her fault? Are you kidding. So you are saying it is perfectly ok to throw yourself at someone who you know is married/in a committed relationship. You people are the reason the world is going to hell.
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^no, we don't throw ourselves at your men...we get, "hey i am sad, make me happy," "my wife is unmotivated." me personally, i feel for people, especially sad ones. raspberries to you sweetheart.
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man oh man, with hat scary assed attitude I am sure "someone else" ruined your marrige
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Good for you, make them both pay...but be smart don't get caught.
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^its not that the other woman is faultless, but it was your husbands decision to fUcK someone else so he is ultimately responsible for the situation. i am a very jealous woman but if my husband slept with another woman it would be his eyes i would be clawing out, not hers!
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Love is Revenge.
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Get her
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Your so full of shit. You don't know JACK. Jack Shit that is. You wish you knew anything. But you don't know nuthin. Besides, no one ruined your marriage except you. Don't blame others for your faults.
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That women didn't make a commitment to you, HE did. Your anger is totally misdirected. If he couldn't keep his pants on and honor his vows with you, then that is ALL HIM. Not her. You are a scary b*tch that needs medicated.
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^No, retard, you don't know JACK. You don't know shit about my marriage. You don't know what I was like,, what he was like, or the extent of crazy whore this homewrecker was. Excuse me but "you don't know nuthin." Especially how to speak English.
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^You get I'm sad, make me happy? You are f***ing retarded. That does not give you a right to start an affair. And no, he is not blameless whatsoever, but neither are you, homewrecker. If someone seems unhappy in their marriage tell them to seek counseling. What about the sadness you cause to the person who ends up being cheated on? You don't give a shit because you only care about yourself.
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Homewreckers tend to be extremely deluded. They think, hey his wife isn't making him happy, that's her fault. It's my duty to come in and satisfy him because I think I'm some mystical sensual being capable of making this man happy. I think that if he was with me he would be faithful.
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^What homewreckers actually do is find a man who could really hurt someone, who is self-seeking, irresponsible, inconsiderate, and has a problem. Homewreckers themselves have such low self esteem that they resort to breaking up a troubled or untroubled relationship because they cannot get an honest relationship on their own.
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They think they are innocent because technically they are not cheating on anyone. But, in my case, this homewrecker had a serious loving and adoring boyfriend. Even if she had been single, homewrecking is something a morally bankrupt person would do. Don't get me wrong, I'm not religious-WHATSOEVER-this b**** is a "Christian". I would never cheat on someone or homewreck-irony????
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For those who freak out thinking I'm some crazy b**** planning a murder, calm down, I'm going to do way worse than that. My revenge involves destroying her career, public humiliation, turning her friends on her, and making it known what kind of person she is, without anyone knowing I was involved in bringing her true self to light. Don't worry, my ex will get his too.....
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TO ADD TO THE STORY...This crazy whore claimed she was pregnant when I found out. She wasn't. She even claimed it was twins. She texted me constantly "BABIES BABIES BABIES BABIES BABIES". She is a f***ing psycho, and she's wrecked other marriages before. She does it for fun.
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It sounds to me like people who homewreck have a lot of excuses for why what they do is not so bad. They are crazy and should go to hell.
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To the OP: We get how you think. Your posting it over and over isn't changing anything. Your man is the one who cheated, not her. You have let it consume you and your life which makes you pretty petty and stupid to not just get over it and move on. You have some serious issues and should seek help.
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Excuse me, but SHE DID CHEAT. She also harrassed me about it.
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She did NOT cheat on you but it doesn't matter what anyone says. You are too consumed and blinded to see any rational thoughts. I feel really sorry for you and anyone who gets involved with you in the future unless you seek help.
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Poor hubby's caught in the middle of two psychos.
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Poor hubby? Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. To the OP-get her!
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sorry but you really sound deranged. who cares if he was fuCKinG a psycho or mary poppins, he is the one who is responsible for bringing this drama into your life. how did she get your phone number? either he gave it to her or she stole it out his phone or you called her and she saved the number. but that would have never happened had he not brought this woman into your lives. had he kept it in his pants none of this would have ever happened. you can't rape a man honey, if they don't want it it won't get hard! you should be focusing your attention on yourself and put your energy to good use instead of wasting it blaming a woman who your husband chose over you!
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^ I guess when a woman gets raped, she doesn't get wet?
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^when a woman gets raped she does not get aroused just like a man would not get aroused if he were raped. don't ask stupid questions....obviously a man can rape a woman regardless of how "wet" she is. a man however could not rape a woman if he didn't have a hard on now could he you stupid fUCk...
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^5. The other woman didn't cheat on her. By the same logic, you can kill someone as long as you don't love them. You can steal from someone as long as you don't know them.
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^how is that the same logic? no one said that it wasnt wrong, they were saying she is blaming the wrong person. she was not in a relationship with his mistress he was! and the other woman didn't "steal" anything from the op, the man gave it to her. if anything he stole his wifes trust!
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Wow, this chick is crazier than the alleged "psycho" and some of you really buy it. Just from reading her hatred, I can imagine what would make ANYONE else look more amazing to her man than she did. After you're done honey, he still won't want to be with only you and neither will any other sane person. Good luck with that.
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I pray you don't and never will have children with this attitude. Grow up.
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^amen
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Wow people here really have no sympathy for anything people go thru.Its like everyone is on the side of the home recker and no one is one the side of the person who got screwed over...
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Everyone would be on your side if you were putting the blame where it belongs, on your husband!!! instead you focus only on the "homewrecker" and act like your husband dick found it's way into her magical evil forces against his will or something. what pray tell, do you plan on doing to him? you have failed to mention that part...
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I've taken him for everything he has, told his entire family what he did and humiliated him. So far she has gotten away scot-free, even thinking she is innocent. She's wrecked other marriages before and she needs to pay. No I'm not going to kill her/physically assault her. But I will humiliate her and ruin her life by destroying her career. Call it deranged if you want, but I don't let anyone get away with this.
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^how did she "wreck" your life if she exposed your husband for the lying cheating aSShoLe is really was deep down inside? your husband "wrecked" your life, grow the fUcK up! bitter is a very ugly quality in a woman, good luck with that....
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Quit telling me to grow the f*** up and move on. You don't know. I'll leave her alone maybe she can sleep with your husband too, lie about being pregnant and text you 50 times a day for two months "BABIES BABIES BABIES". Yes, the husband was a lying, cheating a** ****. She also thinks having affairs with married men is fun.
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^just a thought, but you could act like an ADULT. if she was harassing you then you should have called the cops, or had her number blocked. and i don't have to worry about my husband because he isn't a scumbag like yours is! don't you get it? you chose a fUcKiNg loser and now your life sucks because of it. you said it yourself that you made more money and did everything (bla bla bla) so he was just using you in the first place. that is not love. it is quite pathetic actually! it also tells us something about you. maybe if he had been happy in his marriage he wouldn't have strayed in the first place....
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He wasn't a loser. We both had good jobs, mine payed slightly more. He was a good man I fell in love with, and I was absolutely certain he would never do this kind of thing. You keep enjoying the view from your high horse. I guarantee your husband has secrets he keeps from you.
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^^Sounds like the person fightng with the OP is a whore trying to defend her own kind hahahah
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Watch out you never know who is stalking whom
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He was and is a loser. There is no debate. If he cheated with her, HE IS A LOSER. The OP needs to stop deluding herself, "We both had good jobs, etc." When she can admit that while he may have lied and fooled her, deep inside he was and is the loser she may actually grow up. Cheers to the sane person who commented about reporting harrassment legally, that is a smart person.
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Oh Christ! Another "cat lady" who was done wrong by a "good" man and a whore homewrecker. Call Lifetime, we may have a movie of the week.
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i'm not on a high horse op, i just happen to be able to function normally without medication! good men do not cheat so how can you call him a good man when he would rather fUcK some other woman than you? if you are as controlling in real life as you are on this forum you probably drove him away...no man wants a woman who can't admit her own faults and blames everyone else when things go bad....once again, i don't have to worry about those things in my marriage because we are honest with each other. strange concept huh?!
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That whore needs to pay for what she did, she is not inoccent. Do whatever you can to cause pain in her life like she has done yours.
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i'm never getting married
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Being married doesn't really change anything. You would feel the same if he cheats wether your married or not...the Married part is really imaginary. It's whatever you make of your relationship. Marriage isn't flawed..people are.
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^Who the hell are you talking about?
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^That makes absolutely no sense
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I know who you are, you are pathetic, stop whinning and move on. Everyone who knows you thinks this!!!! waaa waaaa waaaaa oh my god just shut up, and stop with the empty threats!
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No, your psychotic behavior ruined your marriage. Your poor husband was probably so starved for the company and touch of a real, sane woman that he just couldn't help himself! The only person to blame here is YOU!
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I AM NOT PSYCHOTIC FUCK YOU ALL
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I AM NOT GAY FUCK YOU ALL (except for the ones who are the same gender as I)
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The men in the little white coats are coming, and they have a nice straight jacket just for you:)
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^ f*** you too, I hope you all are enjoying making asses of your selfs over my pain
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^on the bright side i heard they make you look about 10 pounds lighter lol!!!
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Chinese proverb: One who embarks on a journey of revenge should first dig 2 graves.
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^Excellent!
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