If you want to be free of this person then just tell them. Rather than wishing to die, why not try to find what/who makes you happy and dosen't cause you so much pain. That is what I am trying to do...I had to say goodbye to someone because of the very same reason:(
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You have a conjoined twin?
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If you die, you will be free of it. Although I've also heard lately that taking a big dump also helps.
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It's obvious to me that this isnt about a lover. Its about a parent/ child relationship. I am sorry you feel this way, and there is only love in your heart. So just let that shine, and everything will fall in to place. Let go of the whole "battle for control". focus on fighting the real fights going on around you.
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to the first comment... I found a paradox in your logic. What happens when someone gathers happiness from pain? you sound naive and selfish, but I forgive you. It's not your fault you were not given nessesary tools to develop a sense of empathy and understanding of real love. Things are not supposed to be perfect and while you remain locked into a version of love. pain is nessesary and has it's place in the universe. You really want to know what makes a relationship work? Balance... As a couple. overcoming conflicts is EMPOWERING! giving up when you someone challanges your beliefs or motives is a cowards way out, and you wouldnt make a good hushband, or wife, or parent. GEEZ. nothing but a bunch of cowards around the world today! what has happened to my peaople?
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^You are a mindless windbag and you don't know what you are spewing. There is nothing wrong with the first comment. A good honest love between two adults should never cause pain. Reality is most people are not honest with one another, and one or both of them end up so hurt that there is no other choice but to say goodbye. You are the one who is selfish and naive my friend!
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freedom is a choice
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2^ Please explain how you fell one gathers happiness from pain. I wrote the first comment and really don't appreciate your response. I may be a little naive...even unconsciously selfish, but I definitley have a sense of empathy and a great understanding of real love:) I don't expect things to be perfect, and I have no "locked version of love in my head. In my case the "relationship" I was in was complicated at best. He didn't challenge my motives of beliefs, he simply wasn't honest, and proceeded to continue to see other women. I am not a coward, nor am I anyone's doormat! Maybe before you make your "profound" comments you should consider that you might not have all the facts. Don't worry though...I forgive you:)
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^oops I mean 3^
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4^ Im not your f***ing friend, b****.
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I'm so sorry, but I was born this way. My excessively large penis will always be your ying-yang, your pain-pleasure. Hey, anybody want to go get some Chinese food. Me so hungry.
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unless you are handcuffed to them, you are free. wake up.
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This is Love. Lucky you.
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I was talking about my grown son. He is a loser in every way.. which makes me a failure.I love him more than life but he destroys everyone that loves him with his drugs and lies.
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^don't blame yourself, let go, you gave him the directions, he didn't follow, you can't control another's actions or make them do the right thing. you care, so that doesn't make you a failure. have a good weekend
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omg this is my feeling aswell!
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