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My older brother died 15 years ago. I think about him everyday, and wish that we could be men together, talk about marriage, and work, and drink beer etc.

My older brother died 15 years ago. I think about him everyday, and wish that we could be men together, talk about marriage, and work, and drink beer etc.

 
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Don't let him die in vain,do something important in your life for him,you know he would be proud.Do good things for yourself and others,be a survivor pal,let him rest in peace,you are the one in pain now,don't let his death become your crutch,might want to leave the beers alone too,it won't make the pain go away,it will just eat at your liver,get a life,its what your bro would want.
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I posted this; I try. He was only 18 when he died. I was 15. His birthday was in Febuary, and I was just thinking about him being 34. Now I'm married, I'm a plumber/ student. But I wish that I could sit with my bro and talk to him as an adult.
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I understand your feelings. I lost my sister as a child and often wonder what it would be like to have her around to share our adult life. To make it worse, I lost my mother only months after my sister. I think of them often, and try every day to be a good person for myself and them. Good luck to you, friend.
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I'm sure he watches over you. You will see him again someday. I am sorry for your pain and loss.
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I know where you are coming from. I lost my brother 7 years ago and I still think about him all the time. I guess it will always be that way. It doesn't get easier, you just get used to it.
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My sister died shortly before her first grand daughter was born. Why I concern about this is a mystery. I just know I feel bad for her in abstensia. I believe all things will come to pass.
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I have an older brother. We never spend time together anymore. He has his job, and I mine. He has his family, and I mine. It was all so different before we both got married and had kids. Same goes for my friends. I guess it's a part of life.
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YOU CAN STILL TALK TO HIM.ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CLOSE YOUR EYES AND PICTURE HIM FROM YOUR HEART.BELIEVE IT WORKS.I HAVE BEEN DOING THIS WITH MY FATHER FOR ALMOST 22 YEARS
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I'm sorry for your loss.i also lost my older brother 10 months ago i thought i was going to die of sadness. 3 months after his passing i lost my older sister to liver failure. you just have to hang in there.you will see him someday.
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Again, I'm the original poster. No I've never smoked crack; and we wouldn't rob liquor stores... Maybe you should get a life. I clearly have one, and I have no idea what led you to think that I would be interested in crack or robbery.
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^ You are such a liar, you know you smoke crack and have sex with your sister!
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^yeah...never done any drugs, my brother was hit by a train, and neither of us voilent in any way. Both parents at home, hard working decent folks. So no incest, robbery, or drugs.
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I know that feel, man. My bro died 20 years ago, I'm 31. :)
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