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my fiance told me he wanted a gf on the side until we get married bc once we r he will take his vows seriously i dont think im strong enough 4 this... again

my fiance told me he wanted a gf on the side until we get married bc once we r he will take his vows seriously i dont think im strong enough 4 this... again

 
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He is full of BULLSHIT ! This is how it will be after you get married. Take heed.
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He is Lieing , Dont be foolish.
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Tell him to get lost
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I'm a guy, and I even think he is full of SHIT! Look, it's time to break it off. If he really loved you he wouldn't of said that BS. He's taking you for granted. So, break it off with him, if he tries to grovel don't take him back right away make him prove it over at least a few months. Some guys don't change keep that in mind. I'm sure you deserve better.
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you sound like you have low self esteem, if he really loved you he wouldn't want anyone else....why are you willing to settle?
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You don't think you're strong enough for this "again"? Does that mean he did this to you before? Tell him that's fine if he wants to be with another girl before he gets married. Tell him you'll also be with another guy before the wedding as well. Either that or tell him to F off and find a REAL MAN that's ready to love someone enough to not want to be with anyone else but you! Sheesh! WAKE UP!
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if your not all he wants and desires now you won't be after you have that piece of paper. oboviously your questioning this theary youself or you wouldn't be deaspreatly seeking for someone to tell you what you already know isn't true..... listen to your heart it won't mislead you but you head will.
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you should be all he wants and needs, anything else.......kick him to the curb.seriouslythe more i think about this, if you were my daughter i would want to thump him. are you marrying a child? don't hesitate, launch.
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He is stupid and sick. Dump him.
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If he is telling you that he wants to get a girlfriend, you can bet your ass that he already has one or three already. You are better off walking alone than with this sorry excuse for a male. Oh and I would damn sure get tested because you don't want the gift that keeps on giving.
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get out while you can--- he will just be sneaky about it once your married. It is disrespect to you.
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Okay people, its not that easy we have a 2y/o son together... i cant cut him out totaly.... and man some of you can be real rude.
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Make a plan to leave him. Commit to happiness,life is short and your child will only suffer with a pig for a father.
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you cut him out of your life not the childs. He will always have someone on the side. I wonder how he would feel if it you were to tell him that you want others on the side as well.
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You are obviously a total loser for having a child with this douche bag and again for even considering this situation to be acceptable. You are beyond help or hope!
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fair is fair. you should get a girlfriend on the side, too
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Do not marry this man.
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please do not marry him, are you kidding?
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Do not under any circumstances marry this man, if you are not enough now, you will never be enough for him...Get rid of the big zero and take care of yourself. FIRST!!!!
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if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, blahblahblah - CHEATER!
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dump him. you CAN do better. just believe in yourself and don't settle. :)
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whhhhaaaaaaaattt.if he's brave enuff to ask for this imagine what he's not asking about but doing.
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Drop this guy like a hot brick! He has no respect for you personally, and he does not value the relationship!
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Tell this clown to go whistle! No woman should tolerate this for a second!
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