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I don't love my husband. I did before we got married, but he has hurt me terribly in the past 2 years. I can't afford to leave. Sex w/him makes me sick.

I don't love my husband. I did before we got married, but he has hurt me terribly in the past 2 years. I can't afford to leave. Sex w/him makes me sick.

 
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you made your bed....yada,yada,yada.
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what did he do to hurt you?
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He has turned to alcohol, and cheated.I didn't "make my bed" idiot. I certainly didn't get married only to be cheated on. Some people shouldn't comment on things they know nothing about. If I could leave him, I would. I can't. Thank God we don't have kids together.
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Not sure why you can't leave? I was there and yes it took every bit of my power to walk out, They only thing I had when I left was my daughter. It will work out, but you gotta wanna!
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How in the hell did you afford anything before you were married?!?
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Bfore I got married, I worked full-time. I lost my job like about a million other people. I go out every day to find a job, have resumes in all over, and still can't even find a part- time job. If I had a job, I would leave.
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I'd be working at McDonald's to free myself from that business and that's what I did until I could fin a better job. They are always hiring and it paid for my childcare and expenses. When I was too weak to just leave I blamed it on many factors. Once I got the nerve it was amazing how I could find all the resources. Best of luck to you!
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And how about not f**king the nasty cheater anymore, you don't owe him pussy.
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If there was a McD's here, I would be there. There isn't. There are no jobs here, and I mean None. I try to avoid sex. We have had sex three times in the past 12 months. With a condom. All three times, I cried. He knows how I feel. This has been the worst time of my life. I pray for a job so I can leave.
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^He prays for a hand job.
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^well, maybe you can give him one!
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I really hate when people say go work at mcdonalds they are always hiring...um actually no they arne't at least were I live there is one mcdonalds in a 40 mile radius, not like your one mcdonalds per block area you live in. remember people are not the same and because something was easy for you doens't makeit easy for them.
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There doesn't seem to be any jobs around here either! Even the crappiest of crap jobs aren't hiring! And WHAT Mcdonalds worker makes enough to pay for child care AND their expenses? Dream on! You'll be lucky to break even working at any fast food joint! Unless we're talking the lowest of the low, nasty child care place.. They are way too expensive for McDonalds money!
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I don't know how any of the MickeyD's stay in business around here. All they hire are worthless blacks who probably don't wash their hands regardless of it being the law.
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=( hope you get out of this FAST.
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=( hope you get out of this FAST.
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It time to get out.
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Okay, Long story. Once upon a time there was a woman who wanted to know everything there was to know about the world. So she clims this mountain to talk to this wise "man" (sorry) and she tells him I want to know everything there is to know. He being wise beats her on the head with a walking stick.then he brings her to a cave full of books on everything. He says "read all these books, and then you will know everything there is to know". The next day he come in and asks her "do you know everything there is to know" She answers no. He beats her on the head with his stick and then walks away. The same exact thing happend for years and years. Then one day he walked in and asked her "do you know everything there is to know?" No she answers, he then took out his stick as he brought the stick down she caught it. He said you now know everything there is to know. You know that you will never know everything there is to know and you know how to stop the pain. I hope that helps.
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there are shelters that can give you assistance.alanon as well.There is welfare.they can even get you a job.now it depends on if you really want to leave.
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If you don't love him, get out of his house. Give back his ring and don't expect alimony. Leave with what you came with-nothing. The 3 times you gave him sex, around here that would earn you $60. That's the reality. Now really what was your part in the relationship?
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^Go F**K YOURSELF!!!
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