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I hate my husband. He's bad in bed, a slob, and thinks he's great. I wish I could leave. I wish I was having an affair. My life just sucks!

I hate my husband. He's bad in bed, a slob, and thinks he's great. I wish I could leave. I wish I was having an affair. My life just sucks!

 
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why did you marry him?
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I have a wife like that. She pretended to be something much better than she was, now I am stuck for reasons I don't have to explain to the hostile posters. Let's have an affair together and brighten our lives up.
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^you sound like a dick. no wonder your wife "became" something else.....
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I married him because I loved him. After several years, he changed. People just do. An affair wouldn't make me better, but I might feel something. I'm much too old for anyone here.
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Two things we waste in life are Money
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Your never to old to LOVE or be LOVED.You are the Captain of your Fate
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Apparently the thing that changed in your relationship was communication or was it there to begin with. doens't matter how long you are together I know that if I was slacking like that my husband would let me know and I would let him know too...then you know wether to leave by the effort shown to change.
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Piss off poster of ""became" something else. She didn't bother to tell me she was bi polar, or that she had huge hidden debts that she "didn't want anyone to know about" or that she has a problem staying faithful. So, she just announced she would do what she wanted, we should have an open relationship and that if I left she would take the kids. So FUCK off you judgmental prick.
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I've told my husband how I feel. He just shrugs. It's no big deal to him. I'm not saying I am perfect either. But I did stay in shape, and I tried to be a good wife to him. We have a clean home, I pay all the bills, I make dinner, and work hard. He works "part-time" (which means when he wants to work), and when he isn't working he is sitting around watching porn, in his dirty clothes, picking his nose. It's disgusting. I had three kids, and STILL wear a size 5. I work hard! He wears 3XL clothes now, he gained 100 pounds. I guess it's hard for others to understand. *sigh*
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It's never too late. Leave him and start over. In many cases being alone is MUCH better.
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If you want to leave, make a plan, save money, set a time (goal) then go. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Do it or keep quiet.
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You really hit the jackpot on this one.
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If I leave him, I lose my home, because it's not just in MY name. I've invested everything in my home, it's not only a house. He will get half of what I earned. People don't understand.
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I understand. My wife has the same cuffs on me, but it is getting to the point that anything is better than these cuffs. Keep looking for a chance to get out, take the immediate loss for the long term gain.
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anyone who puts money over their own happiness is an a** ****.
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Really, jerk, you wanna be homeless^^ Some people can't understand.
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and to the "anyone who puts money" statement... it isn't just money, it is home, it is the kids, it is all of the collateral damage. You are not much of a human if all you value is your "OWN" happiness, you are just a narcissist.
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If you are like me you are just taking care of him because you are afraid he will die without you lol. I have been with my husband sixteen years, Never even get laid! wtf is wrong with us lol.
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You are the one who got fat and stop sucking...he hates you even more.
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How did I treat him like a child? You have no clue what you're talking about. What happened is he got lazy and stopped trying. He thinks I will never leave him, so he doesn't care. It happened over the past 20 years. I think maybe you should know facts before you talk about me.
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Your husband is gay.
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I think my husband is gay :( but here i am still working myself to death, wishing and hoping for a dream. I will find a worthy lover who doesn't need to own me and who understands.
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MY husband isn't gay. He's just a pervy slob.
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Boo Hoo my life sucks, what's for supper, b****?
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Maybe he just needs a good Cleveland steamer, honey.
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