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My husband is boring, self-obsessed, and watches raunchy internet porn. I'm lonely with no choices. I wish self-sufficiency wasn't so far away.

My husband is boring, self-obsessed, and watches raunchy internet porn. I'm lonely with no choices. I wish self-sufficiency wasn't so far away.

 
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You CAN leave. You CAN be happy. Don't wait. Life is so short!
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he sounds like a loser!
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...he also cooks, cleans, holds a great job and is very attractive. I sort of feel caught between perfection and loneliness.
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Sounds like maybe YOUR expectations are too high. If he cooks, cleans, holds a great job, and is attractive then CUT HIM SOME SLACK. Maybe you could try a little harder to bridge the gap by finding common interests, and doing things to make him notice you. Also, there really isn't anything wrong with watching porn...be thankful he is home with you and not out catting around!
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Oh so you've married a "modern" man? Sorry.
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Maybe he is self obsessed because you are nothing to obsess about. Sometimes you women have to have every damned thing and still b****. Sounds like the does almost everything for you and you are "lonely" Hell, do something to be sexy enough to be better than porn. Watch it with him and try some of it. Be good for both of you.
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having a job, being attractive, cook, clean are not valid reasons to stay unhappy...its great he does/is/has these things but if he is selfish (then I would guess you are being neglected)and prefers gross porn to you then they kinda negate the positives...you could try to find things that interest you both or find porn that you enjoy and show him...have you tried telling him you think he is too self-absorbed?
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What's for supper, b****?
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Maybe he just likes porn, and maybe you should try to loosen him up a little. It seems like he's bored too. Just try play fighting with him or making fun of him. Even piss him off. Make him your FRIEND first like you were supposed to in the beginning. If it's impossible THEN, you should leave.
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You always have choices in life. You may not like what they are, but you always have choices.
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