What's there to talk about? There is no excuse or explanation for what he said to them. It is what it is. Cut your losses and let IT go, or HIM go.
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Don't feel ashamed for finding out he's a two faced rat! Call him out on it and tell him exactly what you found out. If he askes how then tell him who cares HOW.. the fact is you KNOW he's talking to other girls about leaving you. So ditch his sorry ass and find a real man!
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^Yeah, I have to agree. Going through his phone and reading his text messages may have been a little shady. But him talking to other girls is inexcusable. Honestly though, at this point there is nothing left to say. You should just leave. There's nothing left to say.
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dont be ashamed Look as a guy the odd are he may do this. he's gonna turn it around on you for snooping. So yeah break away now, I'm sure plenty of men are out there who will do right by you.Good Luck
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Curiosity may have killed the cat.But satisfaction damned sure brought him back!!!
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trust your instincts!!!
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I found out my husband of 17 years was leaving me and moving out from a text to a friend. I never snooped in his phone but I knew something was up and he wouldnt talk to me so I was desperate. After I read that i gave him a chance to come clean and when he didnt i let him have it and told him i saw what was in his phone and i felt no shame about that.
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just ask him about the text he must have accidentally sent to you about blah blah blah... make sure you ask him while you are giving him a bj, that way you know just how nervous he really is!!!
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Leave him first and watch everything change, but NEVER admit what you knew.
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agreed with two up... although i personally can't bring myself give BJ's when i am mad at him, once again... although it might be worth seeing him get busted and what it will immediatly do to him or not do to him...
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Screw it and screw him....you were suspicious, and your suspicions have proven to be valid...so kick him to the curb with your head held high....there are others out there who will love and cherish you, and not cheat.
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If that's a picture of you, he's a damned fool. I would definitely confront him. Screw him and the very best of luck to you.
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i had the same thing happen. almost exactly. i confronted my husband we worked it out and have never been happier. but he never had anything more than txts. talk to the girl. ask her if the had sex if she says yes ask her if she saw his birthmark. even if he doesnt have one... see what she says....
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This really depends on how long you've been together, why you want to talk to him. If it hasn't been long then just leave him no talking just leave, but if it's been awhile then just let him know say you heard that he wan'ts to leave you..let the door fly open from there, the convo will flow and tmpers will flair but the point is find out if he loves you or not and if you want to work it out, thats really whta matters here. If he loves you he will forgive the snooping and if you love him you will forgive the texts...depedns on a lot of things really. But do what will make your mind happy.
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just bounce hun, don't even tell him why.
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you go first and let him regret. don't worry a better relationship will soon come along.
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Well if he is already planning on leaving you who cares if you went through his phone.
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You can just leave him. If he asks, just tell him you don't have feelings for him anymore.
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Now that you know he's leaving you you need to leave him first.
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If the photo is you - he is an idiot or gay. Its not - if you should dump him - its how fast can you get gone?! Even it is not you he is still a slime I have dated those before "always looking for something better" You will find a real man and it will be good.
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Just dump him and move on
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do his brother and move onjust smile when you see him
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A woman knows when something isnt right! And I can tell you from personal experieces nothing hurts them worst than you leaving them! It kills there ego. And that in its self is funny shit. If he loves you he will beg his way back and you can talk about the text then, if he doesnt try to come back well then you deserved better anyway. There is no shame in what you did!!
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sneaky
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i did that, confronted him, funny, he twisted the text into something innocent. i really don't care anymore, it just proved i was right and he is not my friend.
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a liar and a snoop
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just grab him by the balls and sy "look here b**** im tired of your F*king lies if you wanna leave theres the f***ing door" :) that what i'd do
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Why should you be ashamed? This is somebody you trusted, and they are out to use you and hurt you. You have a right to protect yourself emotionally. Dump this guy and move on. (You why women take a lot of crap from guys? Because women let them!) (M65, three daughters)
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