This sucks, but you need to try and put the past behind you. Hang on to the good memories and allow yourself to be happy. Good Luck!
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I can relate to your pain,but your key words here are...what we HAD together
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I just got out of a 17 year marriage for the same reason. I keep getting caught up in what we used to have before he decided he wanted other things. I have started to say my husband died 3 years ago and I am divorcing a stranger. Sometimes it helps. Most importantly don't hate yourself for still loving him. This too shall change. Hang in there!!
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GET OVER IT BITCH!
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^Aren't you nice! I hope someone treats you shitty...cheats and breaks your heart. Then maybe you will have a little compassion for this poster!!!
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You might should examine the concept you have of "what we had." Perspective will help you do that.
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same thing happened to me 3 months ago.Mine came in drunk and checked into the motel I was working in with 2 married sluts!!Nice huh? It was great when he wasn't f**ked up. I think about him every minute. My friend told me that the best way to get over one guy is to get under another...maybe I should try that
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one good lay will change that
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thanks ya'll. glad to know I'm not alone. it's definitely hard to get over someone you were best friends with for 2 years, then started dating for 3 years. He really knew me inside and out and it's really hard to find that. He was controlling,disrespectful,a liar and a cheater...but I really was in love with him-at the beginning anyway. I guess I was in love with who I thought he was/wanted him to be. But whenever I start thinking about it, I always end up remembering why it ended and how it was his loss, not mine; and I'm better off without him. So thanks:) I hope in time, all of you that were hurt, can see that you are better off without them! Never settle for less then you deserve:))
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Hey, what's for supper bi tch???
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