How you can be supportive is listen if he needs to talk, hold him if he needs to cry, and help him get whatever help he needs.
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Just being there. I'm sure you've known alot of people who were molested, and didn't know it, because they're not apt to tell people.
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Better to voice it out then to repress it for years. My husband did not tell me till the eighth year we were together. Just remember a cycle of abuse often repeats itself. Not always but often.
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Dont treat him any different.
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Be supportive of the openness he is expressing. Tell him something about yourself that no one knows. You can feel more connected with him that way and he to you.
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Just be there for him when he needs you...thats all you can do
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Thanks so much!
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Who are the people that put down for this one?
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i am on my way to being a CSI because i was molested and others who were molested by the same guy were killed. I have had vengeance in my heart all my life...encourage him to make a difference!
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If he told you on the first date, run from him.
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The guy I was seeing opened up to me and told me he was molested, then completely shut off and pushed me away. I love and miss him still. I wish everyday he could just be ok and be with me. It's going to be hard and you will have to be strong. I wish I could have been. Good luck.
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^Thanks alot! ~I feel for ya, man
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