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After my Father died, my "christian" Mom joined a sex site and now has sex with strangers. It's been two years and I still cry when she leaves each night.

After my Father died, my "christian" Mom joined a sex site and now has sex with strangers. It's been two years and I still cry when she leaves each night.

 
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I know this is hard to hear, but your mom is probably dealing with your dad's death by doing these actions. Sometimes just being with anyone is better than dealing with yourself alone. This isn't good for you, and I'd say gently bring it up to her. She will regret this later in life, and it is something that will affect you forever, too.
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I am sorry about this. I know it must be heartbreaking. The first post is very good advice. I think it is true.After I divorced my ex, she did some off-the-wall stuff that I thought was totally contrary to how I thought I knew her.I think sometimes we never really reveal ourselves to others. We have our character, which is who we really are when we think to ourselves. Then we have our reputation, which is what others think of us. Often times perception is reality. Honey, try to remember that as you walk through life. It is not deceit, per se, but rather, it is a diplomatic approach to life. Also be mindful that your mom may very well not be sleeping around as much as it appears. It may just be companionship she seeks.You really need to sit down and talk to her straight from your heart. Don't get mad or offensive. Be kind and respectful, but firm and truthful as you speak softly.
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Why don't yo let your mom live her life? It's her road, the poor woman probably had sex once in her whole marrage and you were born. What a great woman, sticking through a sexless marrage for your sake.. On the otherside your parents might have been sexaholics and made a pact to never stop enjoying their sexual exploits. Why not ASK your mother what's up?
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^Dumb Ass!
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Geez people, have a heart. I would bet that your mom did not have a very good relationship with her own father, and that your dad provided the love and security that she needed. Now that is gone, and, like young women who have poor relationships with their dads, she is seeking affection and love in a physical sense. Tell here you love her and that you are concerned for her health, both physically and spiritually. And all of you who tried to tear this person down further, what do you have to gain?
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You act like having sex is just for making babies.....maybe she is getting tired of the same old vibrator and no one to hold her hand or cuddle with after she has an orgasm. Women have needs, think about that next time you are riding your boyfriends bologna pony....
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Do you have big titties?
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Maybe she is spreading the word by spreading her legs, just saying.
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Whats' her cell phone
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Your mom probably experienced emmense trauma with the death of her husband and is making poor choices to fill up that void. I'm sorry for the loss of your father AND for the loss of the mother you once knew.
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