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Just found out my sister's bf is HIV+. Still not sure how to feel about it. She's so happy w/him, but now I'm scared for her & her kids.

Just found out my sister's bf is HIV+. Still not sure how to feel about it. She's so happy w/him, but now I'm scared for her & her kids.

 
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Scared...tell her to get tested FAST...Negative, kick him to the curb-Positive, keep him !
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She needs to scale back the relationship to being friends without the benifits. Because who is going to be there for her kids is she also contracts HIV?
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Whatever you do, if you live in West Virginia, do not, I mean, DO NOT engage in incest with her ever again. You will be asking for trouble.
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She is happy because she doesn't know he is HIV , so that means that she lives in a false sence of reality. How can you let your sister go down that path?
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^1 She does know. She's the one that told me about him. ^3 There's no talking her out of a relationship with this guy. He's the 1st guy she's been w that has shown her any kind of respect. And I have to say he is a pretty good guy.
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1 up. Then that is all that matters. Magic Johnson, between his dick sucking, is actually a good husband and dad.
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^...thats how he got his name....dick sucking...the dudes would say "you make me feel like I have a Magic Johnson"
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I am ^4 up. As long as she knows and is not being taken for a fool. I know a few couples that have the virus and they live happy normal lives. The key is to take really good care of yourself. I wish her the best!
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When life gives you lemons make lemonade!!! If they love each other then truly that's all that matters!!!! Love can walk through fire with out thinking and never be touched by the flames!!!!
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Aids is a long painful death. Enjoy
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^ when your dyeing a long painful death I hope the one you love has more love and compassion then you!
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Actually many couples like this exist where the partner never contracts HIV. Kinda puts the lie to the whole HIV scare, but researchers are predictably not interested in this.
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This is between your sister and her BF. If he's good to her and she really loves him then let it be. The kids can't get HIV from normal every day things like sharing drinking cups, tasteing each other's foods, hugging, even kissing. They'll be fine. Research HIV and get the facts.
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(OP)I would never try to split them up. They seem to be so happy. He's good to her
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and the kids. And I have read a little since I found out. I just worry about her
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and the kids. Always have
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and always will. She's my only sibling
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and my baby sister. Thanks to everyone for the encouragement and support.
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