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I can feel the depth of a person by shaking their hand. This makes dating difficult in a shallow world. I've been single for 8 years, my fear? Dying alone.

I can feel the depth of a person by shaking their hand. This makes dating difficult in a shallow world. I've been single for 8 years, my fear? Dying alone.

 
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cut off thst hand
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Get a cat, a dog, or both. Just make sure to take good care of them. You won't be alone and you will have something to do. Make it a rescue and it will be all the better.
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I'd rather wait for a an intellectual to comment. ~OP
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Hey op, I don't know about your ability with the hand shake. But, you are right. There isn't anyone out there worth your time. Everyone is shallow, greedy, fake and self centered. You are correct. I've been married for 23 years and my dream is to die alone. You're luckyer than you realize. And yes, God does exist.
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^ A hand shake is a generalization, I read every person differently. I'm not bitter, I have not lost all hope, neither should you. I'm just stating the fact that connecting with people is very hard for me, always has been. Imagine trying to pick up an internet connection, I just cannot "log on" to most people I encounter. I can feel things that at first I can't describe, but after a while, I will soon learn why I got the red flag, and it's crystal clear. I know quite a bit of it is due to the place that I live, I'm a small town girl now in a big city, and everyone is more interested in themselves than the whole of mankind. I hate selfishness. I can feel small hearts and minds, pretty faces are not enough for me. I need depth to draw me in and hold me hostage.
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I pay attention to people and I see everything. That is how I see the depth of people. I don't care if they like me or not. That is not How I decide if I like them or not. I like to think I'm more professional then that. I like lots of effort.
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^ I can easily bypass all of that, within minutes. Professional than what? Lots of effort, dude, we get it, you're intentionally showing us that your comment represents the rest of the selfish world. I just want to find someone like me.
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^lol You got it hard work and effort.
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^ You DO understand, as a mature adult, that "hard work and effort" is a 2 way street right? Or, are you just a babbling kid? I'm not worried about my effort, when I am engaged I am the most loving person on the planet, with lots of tolerance and compassion. The problem is finding someone who can match the love that I freely give. I won't settle for less than I know I deserve. You strike me as a typical "taker'.
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Kinda in the same boat, but. Not worried about dying alone. It's just a moment, and I'm used to moments alone. Plus, it's hard to relax around people, and I'd like to die relaxed for once.
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^ I totally get the ill at ease feeling of not being able to relax around people, crowds are the worse. But, I'm not alone! I have children, so I'm technically never alone. They're getting older and thank god they do not suffer with my gift, they will all go off and be successful people with beautiful families. When they grow up, who am I going to come home to? That is my worry. This is the LONGEST moment EVER.
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Wait a minute........wasn't this a Steven King book and movie? Is this Christopher Walken?
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The inconsequential psychic
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^ sometimes i believe I am a psychic. I've dreamed about many events and they all happened like the events in my dreams. I've also dreamed about certain people that were doing certain things behind the scenes. I'm almost always right and that scares the shit out of me. My visions come to me in day dreams most of the time these days.
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quick, how many fingers am I holding up?
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^ I dunno but I'm holding up one, sure you can guess which.
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if you're held hostage they might not let you go...dont wish for that eitheranywaysif i end up alone i'll think of youand your lonelinesssince in some form or way we'll bothbe lonely?yes?it must suck to be youdont shake handsgo in on it with a blind perspective
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Don't want to die alone either. Almost five years being single. Not fond of many people just for the fact of the type of energy they have, even if they portray themselves differently. Some times it is startling what I see within peoples eyes.
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we ALL die alone.
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^ sactly
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Wanna shake my "hand"?
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You have the gift of discernment and are prophetic. There is nothing wrong with you. There are lots of people in the world who understand what you are going through.
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Maybe you should try shaking their dick instead of their hand.
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Listen carefully OP, you have a gift, keep on shaking hands, and when the right one connects the circuit will light up and you'll know it was worth the wait. Be thankful. Be patient. (I wish I had your problem!)
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Come shake my hand.
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^ Come give it to me :)
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