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I like to go on chat lines, intrigue men with my sparkling personality, and then make up lame excuses for why we can't meet. Really? I'm just fat and insecure..

I like to go on chat lines, intrigue men with my sparkling personality, and then make up lame excuses for why we can't meet. Really? I'm just fat and insecure..

 
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Besides your weight issue, is there anything else that is causing you to feel insecure? Give yourself a chance to shine and you will be surprised how well you will shine.
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Believe it or not, there are PLENTY of guys who like big girls. Just put it out there and flaunt the fact that you are big and you will see! I always think it is so sexy when someone has accepted themselves. Fat isn't a bad thing to everyone and if you are already attracting men with your personality you are already far down the road to success!
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I do the same thing. It makes me feel beautiful and wanted.
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Men know that and men don't care. Send them any picture,one you, your aunt, your mom...hey all three of you and they'll still drool and jack off.
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you need to be comfortable in your own skin, sexuality is 90% mental and nothing is sexier than a confident woman that owns her sexuality. trust me i get more men and way better sex at 140 lbs than i ever did at 104. an insecure bag of bone is not sexy to real men. plus if you love you, you can only get sexier should you decided to get healthier.
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I'm a chubby girl, and when I go out, I don't even like to make eye contact with a guy, because I know he's thinking "fatty, don't look at me, I don't want you, I want the hot girls here"
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one day you will find a man that cares about and loves you for your inner beauty, put yourself out there be yourself and be honest and love will one day find you
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Join a GYM try to make yourself look better if that what you want. STOP b****ing try to do something to make yourself feel better. Fat or thin does not matter try to make yourself happy.
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Guys aren't that dumb, we know the "face only picture" trick. If they're still talking to you, they're interested anyway.
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Come on, if they don't like you because your a little heavy, they're jerks! Everbody is beautiful no matter what they look like!
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Go on craigslist and look under casual encounter, and you will see there are quite a few men that say race and size do not matter. There is a lid for every pot. I am super attracted to skinny men(never been in a gym)and my friends dont get it. I have two friends that are heavy set and they both got husbands and I am not heavy set and nice looking and I am still single. There are guys out there that are complete dicks when it comes to bigger girls, but like I said, they are dicks.
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I felt the same way and did the same thing until one day I just thought I would send real pics and see what happened. I ended up meeting my soul mate who loves me for me and if I never took that risk I can't imagine how unhappy I may have been. Instead I am with a very sweet and caring guy and what we have is real.
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i dig fat chicks. send me a pic. serious too. i dig them.
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NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FAT!!!!! THE INSECURE THING WORRIES ME!!!!
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You and every other internet chick ever. So what?
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yaaaaa....your right
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so lose some f***ing weight!!! YOu would be surprised how easy it is to drop weight with a good diet\excercise routine. if that isnt enough, get some fake titties and liposuction. Drop the $9k or so. YOu only live once, so stop torturing yourself andf do something that wil make you happy, for gods sake.
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Wow, quite a few responses... I just needed to come clean because I am tired of making excuses why the guy on the phone can't meet the great girl he's been talking to... since I posted this, I increased my workouts from 3 to 6 days a week, and have stopped with the elusive phone line chats. :) I just wondered what people thought of my shenanigans, so thanks for the interesting responses...
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goods for you!! keep it up and work hard. dont forget your diet, as that is crucial to success. good luck
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add music to your life lots of music, it mskes people happy happy people are attractive and attracting in mannnyyyy ways
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I am a FAT girl, 5'8" & 250lbs. Honesty has got me everywhere. including a wonderful chubby chasing man. Try it, its fun. Dont let the nasty shallow people get to you.
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if pic represents op yer not very fat at all, just average
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Get over it already. Fat is SO in right now.
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Eat healthy and exercise.
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