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I told my husband he was my -first. I hope he never finds out, he was my twenty...-first.

I told my husband he was my -first. I hope he never finds out, he was my twenty...-first.

 
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I'll be your 22nd!
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Pratice makes perfect.... keep up the good work..
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LOL
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Same here, my husband had only been with 3 other women and I felt bad that I had been with quite a few more people than that. So I told him he was my 5th, but really he was my 25th.
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You people are horrible!!!! LIARS!
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All women do that
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Not only women, I told my gf she was my 6th...she was 56. Everyone worries about the number. You feel them out when they ask and respond appropriately. It's an unwritten rule of relationship survival.
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this is why me and my fiancee dont discuss numbers. the past is the past for a reason and nobody likes to think about it. and no im no whore either- can fit them all on 1 hand with fingers left over- still no point bringing it up just to make each other insecure
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kim,is this you?
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Some people are very confused. You see, you don't kiss and tell about anything. That is your business. He shouldn't be asking that question. That only depicts his lack of confidence. Further, had you not had those experiences, 7 years into the relationship your husband would be complaining that you won't try new things, or sex is boring. You guys need to get a clue. People can still have morals and have sex with as many people as they choose. Name calling is for immature, unexperienced people who have nothing better to do then to put other people down, so they may feel good about themselves.
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Me fail English? That's unpossible! How are there so many typos in all of these when the freaking comment box has spell check?? Go Team!
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I told my husband he was my 3rd when he was really the 12th. I was his first and felt bad for deflowering him. Oh well!
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LOL wow and he didn't notice?
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Take what ever number a girl says and multiply times seven,there is your number
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Just be happy you remember who your 21st is ok, lol.
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LOL. men are so dumb
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i've been there. only 20 though lol. but i tell em all. when i can remember all their names
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My bf knows that I've had sex with 24 guys. He doesnt care, and even wants to have a gangbang! :)
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my wife told me I was the first,but then I dont know what happened?
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Whats your husband? A freakin Pee-Wee Jello Whimp that he couldn't handle knowing he was not the first? or are you Asian and in one of those cultures that forbid sex before marriage....and what are you doing counting lays? I couldn't tell you when I passed the "21" mark...hell, who's counting and even worse, who's keeping track of it?
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if its clean , delicious disease free gloomy and nice that's what i care about. Like age, the number of men she experienced is of little relevance. not because a car is brand new or has less owners before dosen't necessarily mean that it is the best......and believe it pussies are like cars....depends on the type and care they get.
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I honestly can't beleive this got so many thumbs up, what a whore you are.and I garantee amost all of them are b****es.
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Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I slept with three guys (I'm 33.) to me, THAT (three) is a lot! I'm ready to give up!
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I hope your husband is increasing his numbers each month........is he getting better?
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Sarah?
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wow, poor dude... you need to tell him
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You were not his first either.
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not much difference if you bang 21 guys once or one guy 21 times..... unless it's a basketball team (sorry about the "myth" thing), hole won't be stretched out any more....
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at least he was the first at something
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Don't be ashamed, just be honest. 21 is a low number these days.
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Did the guy even KNOW what a HYMEN is?
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who cares? you lie to your man, it shows you have a definite character flaw. It shows you have no confidence in yourself or that you have a sense of shame at your sexual exploits. Who cares how many cocks you've had up your ass? I dont.
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34 and not deflowered.....not all women are bad. U all just seem to like em so very much.Then you lose your houses, cars, money, and children. And ask: what have I done with my life? Ya picked the wrong gals honey!
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Lying whore. I hope he finds out what an untrustable slut you are and dumps you like the shitbag you are.
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quite lying to him. Be the whore you are and let him have some fun before he dies from your AIDS.
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No trust from the very beginning!
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LOL But what the f***? Wouldn't he be able to tell by the lack of feeling in your vagina? And don't think he's not lying about how many he's been with. Multiply your number by five.
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I've f***ed 234 women/girls and I'm not ashamed of it. I got them all off so why let it bother me?
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nothing wrong with the number... but the lying is not a good thing! you should have told him... in my experience the more lies a relationship has, the less success it has at lasting. best of luck to you.. also, I'm honest with every man i have been with, and although they are not thrilled about my "experience", they accept it if they really love you.. and to all the douchebags above.. a vagina is like every other muscle- it springs back.. a** ****s
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I have never told my wife of all the women I have partnered with. She thinks all my sexual activity came in committed relationships,which is true to a point. My wife is a wonderful person from a very nice family but they are church people, and she woud flip out if she knew how many women I have been with!
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If a young man had twenty one partners before marriage, all his friends would high five him, and think he was cool. But if a young woman does this, right away, she's "slut."
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He probably suspects you werent a virgin....what man would buy that you magically know how to handle him on your first try? Lol It would have been easier to just admit he wasnt your first and leave it at that (no need to admit to 21) but now that youve let this secret go through your whole relationship you cant tell him!!! He will feel like the whole relationship was based on a huge lie.
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tell him and film it. post it on youtube and link us.
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