communication is the key to successful relationships. Speak to him and maybe see a dr about this. There are reasons for a low sex drive. If he has an affair, he'll just end up falling in love and leaving you. I suggest you work on your problem.
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^I agree very much, but it may not be about sex drive. It may benifit you to stop and think about how you love your husband. Are you in love with him, or do you just love him as a friend. My ex had that problem, and now she's my ex (obviously).
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I have been through this same situation. I know that my wife is in love with me and I her. The remedies for sex drive can be worse than the problem. I have resigned myself to live without and my wife occasionally gives me the best oral I have ever had. Maybe you should try the same. Otherwise the above comments are good ones, just be careful... hormone treatments are dangerous. Sex is not everything!!
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WOw I am dealing with this as we speak. I told my husband that he could do it, because I WANt him to be happy ya know, then after a bunch of tequila he confesses to a bunch of affairs he already had!! I was like omg, didn't really know what to think cuz I just said he could but was hurt and pissed that he did. Thought I could handle it but obviously I can't. I found this out saturday, I still don't know what to do...I have no job and two kids! Yeah this is bullshit...be careful what you wish for.
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^ I knew THAT! Sex is not love, but it is one of the true animal instincts that human's retain. Ascertain whether it was just for the sex, then realize you cut him off, not malicioulsy maybe, but still it was deprivation of an instinctual need. He did what he HAD to do. Now, can you get past the consequences of your own actions and then his. I love my wife with all my heart but I would "cheat" if I could. I'm just past the age where it is actually an easy possibility. I want to grow old with my wife, I don't ever want to lose her but I am in need of sex on a level I can't even explain. What is his attitude toward you? How does he treat you? Is he home more than away? There is so much more to life than sex, too bad it has such a devastatin effect on us all. Good luck!
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You sound like the perfect wife.
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Yet somehow i bet you're still willing to take out the trash, wash dishes, clean the toilets, etc., etc., but it's just too damn difficult to show your partner in life some love, said lovin' possibly ending in an orgasm (vs. dishpan hands). How sad is that?!
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This is poster
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This is poster I am the guy that posted two up from your post. I still think that you are perfect. You at least are very understanding. Most women aren't.
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perhaps you need counselling
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