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When I was a kid, my babysitter molested me.  When I was old enough, I married her.  It's been a great 22 years!

When I was a kid, my babysitter molested me. When I was old enough, I married her. It's been a great 22 years!

 
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This is most likely not true, but in the small possibility it is true I just want to say that no matter how happy you think you are in your marriage, you probably need some sort of psychological help. Child molestation is deeply scarring not just to the individual but to humanity as a whole. It sends the message that children are possesions that can be enslaved and controlled and used... not loved and respected and nurtured. Women who molest children are no different from men who molest children...in both cases it is a sick act of stealing from the child. You may feel that you have had a "good" experience but you posting this here is irresponsible and destructive. I am very concerned if there are any children in your life and if they are safe. Too many times, those who were molested and did not heal from it go on to be molesters themselves. Would that be true for you since you see your relationship with your wife as "normal"?
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^ Excellent ananlysis.
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just out of curiosity, how old are you and what is the age difference?
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He was probably old enough to enjoy it!
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Sounds like BS to me..
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It doesn't matter if he enjoyed it or not. We all sometimes "enjoy" things that are destructive to our souls... drinking excessively, taking drugs, even obsession with our physical appearance... to name a few examples. The comment "he was probably old enough to enjoy it" is just the kind of thinking that perpetuates the idea that ANY kind of child molestation is ok. It's not.
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I hope you don't have children. If you do, don't let them alone with your spouse. If they are grown, dooh!
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Why did she marry you? Did you threaten to tell your mommy if she didn't?
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What a beautiful story, and they lived happily everafter.
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This reminds me of the song Big Bottom Girls by Queen. "I was just a skinny lad, never knew no good from bad, but I learned alot in my nursery. Left alone with big fat Maddy, she was such a naught nanny. Hey big woman, you made a fat boy outta me." :)
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I can say from personal experiance it does happen, people are technically too young but the heart wants what the heart wants. If it was a child molester why would they still be together-he is far from a child. I can say that though my husband courted me and I felt guilty for even thinking about being with him, after we were together we both knew we were meant for each other... 18 sometimes very hard years and 4 beautiful babies latter we still think the same thing. He was 3 days from 16 and I was 23, complete opposites and I could not believe I said yes to a minor...And am still amazed at my luck.
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thats f***ed up
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Lucky bastigges!
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I think it was left alone with big fat fatty, you know, to emphasize the point.
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It was left alone with big fat frannie and heap big woman you made a BAD boy out of me
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