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Just found out I was pregnant with #3, SURPRISE. I don't know if I am happy or sad. I do want another but can we afford it? I am more scared now than with #1 :O

Just found out I was pregnant with #3, SURPRISE. I don't know if I am happy or sad. I do want another but can we afford it? I am more scared now than with #1 :O

 
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give him/her all the love you can. Always remember all those pepole thatwant a little one that cant have any. A blessing is what you have.
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It's called birth control, the morning after pill, or abortion. Really? You didn't know?
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i'm due with my first and i am scared as hell about money! in this economy so many good people are suffering and it is a scary time for everyone.
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Just gave birth to #3. She is 6 weeks old. When i found out my husband had just got laid off now we are rebuilding. Wouldnt change a thing, life is always changing and you find the money if you need it. She has blessed our family and now we feel complete.
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I was a surprise # 3 baby. My folks were using birth control and their marriage was failing. My older brother was just 9 months old at the time. Needless to say they were VERY unhappy when they found out. They didn?t want a third child?they couldn?t AFFORD a third child. Eventually they accepted the idea and were/are wonderful parents. Today I am the son my parents rely on the most...the one that is the glue that holds the family together. My homes are the places the entire family gathers. I am the son that made a fortune in business that has made our entire family very wealthy. My parents and siblings no longer have to work or worry about money. I don't think a month goes by that my Dad or Mom tell me how grateful they are I was born. # 3,as scared as you are, will be your greatest surprise and joy. This baby is coming into your family for a reason. Embrace and welcome this little one.
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Wow, the burden that child will have to carry based on your irresponsibility. How sad.
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Is life really so great for you that you think 3 other people will be happier than they are sad? In love more than they are lonely? Wealthy more than starving and broke?
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There is always help for people who have kids and not enough money. Of course the RIGHT thing to do is NOT bring another life into the world if you know you can't afford it. I'm sure it's a lot cheaper to afford condoms than it is to raise a child! Wise up girly or #4 will be popping out right behind #3.
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You have been Blessed . Financially it may be hard for you and your man but the reward of love you will get from that precious baby will be worth all the struggles. Good Luck to you and your family .
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IT"s funny all the mixed comments. I am feeling more happy than anything no it wasn't planned but my husband is happy and so am I, just a bit worried because of the economy especially where I live, but I worry abotu that regardless if I was pregnant or not. As for people who rely heavely on Birth control one day you will want a child and not be able to have one as easily as you think. I haven't been on Birth control ever, and I have been having lots of sex but still barely got pregant now, I really do see it as a gift or some sort of reason this child is coming, whatever lessons this will bring to the family will be appriciated. Like the kid who said he is the support of his family now....It's so weird he said that because I feel like this baby is going to get the best of me. Not that my other kids didn't or don't, but I was younger and less experienced when I had them, and Now I am better and I can not wait to soak up that baby and all his/her Love...they are soo great really. f*** what the world thinks about weqather or not you "should" have kids for whatever reasons, if you want a child I hope you get to experience it, be it adoptions or surrogates or whatever. Good Luck and Wish me a little too because this is going to be NUTS!!!!
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I was you and gave birth in September. Good luck girl and enjoy the blessing. You are right in thinking it is all for a reason, it always is. Cheers to you for being honest, responsible and mature enough to see the bigger picture:)
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~~~ hey op stop it. you wanted to get prego again and you know it. 3rd child? trust me when i say that its going to be a boy, like i know your first child is a girl your second a boy. how do i know these things?
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You should have gotten your tubes tied.
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OP, guess what? You can remain unpregnant without birth control... it's called abstinence and NATURAL family planning. It works really well for people who know how to be responsible. So glad you are happy... ever consider how your other kids will feel or how the child coming will feel about placing such a huge burden on the family? Probably not. Face it, you were irresponsible, weak and selfish... but as long as you are happy I guess that is all that matters...pffft
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"Barely got pregnant".... Am I the only one LMAO?!? xD
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LAst two poster are probably lonely b****es or having an unhappy marriage or something of the sort. I am not irresponsible, my other children will be Loved and cared for as they have been for 7 years! Pulling out doesn't always work and condoms suck what did I get married for then??? NAtural family planning? Sorry but sometimes plans get f***ed up and you gotta deal with what you got. This child is No burden and I am sorry that most people seee children this way. Also for the person who said it will be a boy...well it could be I guess, and I think it will be but your wrong my first was a boy and second was a girl soo in fact you still know nothing. I find it shocking that people call me irresponsible weak and selfish because I am scared and worried as most mothers are, I think? I am married for 5 years together for 10 with a very understanding man with a great job. I am sorry if that pisses you off. I am also sorry for your children whom you treat as accidents or burden because they f***ed up your perfect family planning
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Well then we are all so glad you are so freaking happy about it. Why the hell did you post then? To rub it in to all of us that aren't in relationships with great men, or who can't get pregnant?
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Don't worry, all of the 12 million illegals here are paying taxes to support your kids.
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Thanks! And I posted because I did JUST find out and was scared but over a few days have had support from people(not you obviously) which made it a little easier. IF it makes you happy We are struggling :) have a great day a** ****s.
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^We are... we don't have unplanned kids.
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But you do have have an ugly sense of compassion and a dark energy that fills your life. Have fun with that ^:)
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Why these people keep popping out kids is beyond me. I don't want to take birth control because I might not have kids??? WTF?? That's completely lame, stupid and unfounded. Get the pill and stop already.
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Surprise? Great, another stinky, screaming brat in Wal Mart. Go back to 7th grade science, lady. But don't worry, with nObama in office, your baby will have all the gu-ment cheese and powdered milk ya'lls can handle.
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My second son was 2 months old and I found out #3 was six weeks growing inside! I cried, I laughed, I got angry and I also got faith! The Lord gives you what he knows you can handle! My boys are 11 months apart. And all 3 of my children make my heart more happy than I ever thought possible!
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I myself was scared this morning when I had
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