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For once I want a man to take me out to dinner and then spend the rest of the nite lying in his arms. I'm so tired of men using me for sex only.

For once I want a man to take me out to dinner and then spend the rest of the nite lying in his arms. I'm so tired of men using me for sex only.

 
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Then stop letting them!
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um, if you close your legs they will stop. the real issue is why do you feel their physical needs are more important that your emotional needs?
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HONEY, if the gate is open the cows will go through. Close your gate and make them work hard to push through! :) Start with your heart, but always use your mind first.
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Amen to all the above posters. If that is what you want, make that what you give a man. Don't accept the cheap sex without love and passion first. You're worth it!
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^dumbass for posting
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stop letting them. YOU CAN SAY NO. You have to love yourself b4 anyone else will
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yeah me too, just a f**k. along with all the others.
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Only you have the POWER to stop it.
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I am a 34 year old man who doesn't mind cuddling...as long as you don't stink :)
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You can keep your knees tightly held together and don't let anyone pull them apart.
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You f*** on the first date? My kind of ho!
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Looks like you have a few "dates" lined up from these posts. And by dates, I mean guys that want sex and not take you out to dinner.
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so he can lay there all night with a raging hard on and get blue balls?Do you even have a remote understanding of how the male body works?
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I didn't even go on a date with my now husband. I f***ed him within two hours of meeting him and he didn't buy me anything, and we are now married for 5 yrs but have been together for 10! Hey it can work out but you have to know what YOU want and go for that.
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Don't sleep in the same bed as the guy until you're going to f*** him. The dates come first, the deepening emotional attachment and spooning all night comes later.
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Men are thoughtless pigs. The sooner you really get that, the better off you will be in relationships.
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I really feel for the woman that posted this.:(
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^keep dreaming and playing with your little peepee!
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You mean i can f*** you and all i have to do is take you to dinner and hold you for a little?? whats your number sweetheart?
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I'm only going to say this once, and not get into an argument about it. Women who declare that the fault lies solely in men are nothing but idiots. No gender is stupider than the other, we're all just idiots being led around by our reproductive organs. To the girl who posted this, I take it you wanted the sex or else you wouldn't have done it? If not, why the hell did you do it? Respect yourself more.FYI, I'm a girl as well.
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What's the problem here?
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stop being such a slut, maybe they'll stick around long enough to learn how to spell your name. Also, get some self-respect and maybe you won't accidentally fall onto so much random don't care dick.
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^have you ever thought this woman has some issues, and just wants to feel loved? Yes, she is going about it the wrong way, and from her post, I think she realizes this. Stop judging others and try to be part of the solution!
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So, instead of having him take you to dinner and have sex, maybe you turn the tables and you take him to dinner, you can buy now and then. You don't have to have sex, but why expect the guys to do everything you want if you never want to provide anything but the pleasure of your company. Say no to sex and say yes to paying your way too. If women want to be equal, they can buy too.
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Stop trying to buy love with sex. It doesn't work.
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If you go out to dinner and then you want to lay in your bed and "cuddle" they are thinking sex right off the bat. Try dating women instead.
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Still, you want exactly only what you want, but don't care what they want. That sucks.
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If a man did just that you would not respect him and would never see him again. That's the way women are.
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the problem is you saay you want a "man" but it sounds as if you keep trying to get a man out of a boy and that will never happen!!! there are very few men in this world stop exspecting what clearly isn't a man to behave as one!!!!
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why is everyone assuming this was written by a woman?
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I don't need that much sex. What's for supper bi tch?
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I really believe that women are a;ways trying to change a man. If the change does not take place,they beome a challenge for them. If the man will not take you to dinner or cuddle (or whatever,it is you want) give it up... You are a woman ,you think differently than a man. Start to ignore him,don't bring sex into it and see what happens. Good Luck. We all want to be liked,loved,just not ignored.Yes I am a woman,not a man basher, as you can see.
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Doesn't seem like a difficult request to me.
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