| So you're posting that as a secret?? 
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  | people give up really easy now, the key is......wait for it.......don't give up. there is a solution to every problem you will find. (not the solution of running from problems though.) but it will be hard, i have 32 years with my wife....it gets hard. but it is worth the work....or maybe the work makes it worth it? 
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  | ^words of a VERY wise man. Your wife is a lucky woman it sounds like. The key to a lifetime of happy marriage is "you get what you put into it"? 
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  | strike the question mark. 
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  | i wish i could have this....i love hearing of others with this kind of bond 
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  | Married at 20, 3 kids by age 27, married 33 years this August, she's always been the cheerleader in our marriage, but it takes two to make it work. 
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  | Also, there is a word out there that ruins EVERY relationship: Expectations.  Everyone "expects" the other to do/say things in different situations, and when they dont get it, they get mad and leave.  It takes work and understanding.  Good to all that work at it every day! 
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  | Same thing has been happening all around me. A relatives, godparents and dear friends all announced divorces within 3 weeks of each other. I am doing my best to learn from their mistakes. I won't walk down that road. 
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