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This friends with benefits thing is NOT working......because I think I'm falling in love with you. And I know you'll never love me.

This friends with benefits thing is NOT working......because I think I'm falling in love with you. And I know you'll never love me.

 
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How do you know he or she will never love you?Seems FWBs hardly ever work for both people!
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you must be a woman.....i have a FWB, well thats what he thinks, i am in love too. be prepared for heartbreak, when they say FWB, men mean FWB. thats all there is too it. i have accepted it, believe me, he has other FWB's too. either enjoy it or agonize over it like me
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your probably one of my friend's FWB, do you drink pinot grigio?
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OMG !!!!............I thought FWB meant fuzzy wuzzy bush !........I am in trouble, now !!
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dumbshit
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FWB is for stupid fools.
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^^^No it isn't. It is for people who enjoy sex; in a differnt way
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Its hard for ladies to separate their emotions in a FWB relationship. Sadly thats what happened with me. I fell in love with the guy but he was leaving for the army and the last thing he needed was a relationship. Sux huge monkey balls.
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4^.....LMAO @ the goof that posted "dumbshit"...he/she doesnt know a joke when they read one..........damm, some ppl are thick headed !
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^2 you must be a man, all women can't do it, they lie if they say they can.
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1^...can you read?...she said she couldnt do it....fell in love with him-sheeeeeeesh
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Do you have big titties?
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Actually, it's hard for men who aren't walkin talkin stereotypes (i.e. "leaving for the army") to separate emotions in a FWB relationship too.
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If someone does not have enough time to spend with you outside of the bed. Why should you have enough time for them in it?
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happens every time
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hey look at it this way, at least you get to do it on a bed. lol if you only knew.
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^ huh ?....looks like a mattress on the floor to me...whatever, takes all kinds.
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OP Whay can't you be happy with just a FWB situation?
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^^^Because by nature women are emotionally weaker than men. They must have a bond in order to feel as though they are a complete person.
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^... then why do women enter into FWB situations?
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2^ Funny (not haha but stupid) definition of emotional strength you have.
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^2 well in my case, i was mislead from the first phone call and i fell for it. that was over 2years ago, i have sex with him weekly. he is truly my friend, so i go with it, i love him but sometimes i wish i had someone as cool as him to drink a bottle of wine with, etc. :(
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^1 you fell for it because you wanted to(subconsciously)
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what type wine?
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with falling in love with a guy in a FWB situation. Circumstances like that will keep the flame burning brighter and brighter. Become his monogamous girlfriend or wife and the routine over the long-term becomes boring. So, just enjoy the ride, babe.
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^ very good point.....but she wants to get married....then bored....then they both go get FWB's !!!
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Find em, Fuk em and Leave em......that's my motto. And if the b**** don't like it, tuff shitt.
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One post up, your a bum and this is from a real man. Some motto....
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one up. Sometimes I f***em in the bum, before I dumpem.
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o god i've been there, sorry sis this situation sucks. best of luck
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been there, after a while you realize that person isn't all that great. just enjoy the sex! i
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Trust me, eventually, you will be glad he didn't "love" you!
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see...its friends with benefits-(plural) one benefit is it keeps your plummin' hummin.2. no zits 3. you fall in love and spend a lot of time thinking about him, as opposed to bad things.4. having everything you want can be boring, on and on !!
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^you sound like my FWB, if you are, you are right, i love you. he stayed on the phone with me early this morning and let me cry.
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^ awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww whudda guy !!!!!
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^2 i would never get bored with him though, i know it!
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YES.. It is hard.. I have stayed in this type of relationship for over a year.. and he knows I really love him.. But I also know he loves me .. but in a different way.. I like what we have and your Right.. It would get Boring.. If it were different..
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Boring? You like what you have? You don't know what the heck you are talking about.
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FWB isn't easy for every guy. It wasn't/isn't for me. I love her and she'll never love me back
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