It's not fair to make them pay for what someone else did to you. Why allow your ex to ruin your for anyone else? Come on your better than that.
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Look on the bright side, your ex probably saved you from something far worse. But anyways, why is this a secret? You're really not going to tell him that you've already judged him based on your ex?
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Your doing it to yourself.
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It's hard to trust again but you have to try. Not everyone is an idiot like your X. I had trust issues myself but over time if you are with the right person things will change and be good again. Hang in there and TALK about it. At least let the other person know your fears and insecurities. They probably have their own as well... we're HUMAN!
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Let's look at this another way, shall we.I love you, but I'll never be true to you. The damage your ex caused is because the reasons are so obvious. I don't want to be damaged too.Maybe it was you?
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^Maybe it was Memphis?
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...and when they are gone because you couldn't trust them, when you realize that you pushed that loving person away from you, where will you be? heh, good luck living your lonely life.
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Then it sounds like you need some time to yourself to heal. Why make someone else miserable with ya?
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well, if you have big jugs, they'll stick around...for awhile
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The phrase on this pic makes absolutely no sense, both grammatically and philosophically. It is not a complete sentence, and it is absolute warm-fuzzy drivel. Wake up people - there is absolutely no evidence for a soul or spirit. And if you "touch someone with your heart", you die. Period.
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^ Where did you get the quote from? Nowhere did I read "touch someone with your heart." You're a bit delusional. Shut up with your absolutist self. Try reading some philosophy before commenting on it. Point.
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2^Yeah, take THAT you silly wabbit grammar nazi. Your horseshit judgements kind of defeat the point of a secrets forum.
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^ 2 up - ummmmm.... "touch your soul with their heart"?? Can you not read? It's called a paraphrase - but the implication is exactly the same. Meaningless drivel, period. And trust me, I know more about philosophy than you will ever hope to.
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^The actual "secret" (in the text of OP) is pretty clear, and kind of sad. Why are you arguing about the photo and even paraphrasing it, dummy? And I mean "dummy" philosophically.
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2^ Paraphrases do not take place inside quotation marks, oh wise philosopher. And it's all quite meaningFUL. Stop trying to argue the negative and take away the subjective experiences of people. You need to wander in the wilderness for a while. Point.
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^ no, quotes take place in quotation marks, as do implied quotes. The point is, the statement makes absolutely no sense, either grammatically or philosophically. It's just an example of the shallow, trite crap that people buy into these days. Subjective experience is meaningless unless backed up by rational evidence.
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I think the vote count is clear - this post is crap!
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2^I think the vote count is clear too. The philospher king is a relentless dumbass.
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"Subjective experience is meaningless unless backed up by rational evidence." Objective evidence that you are mixed up. Where do you think meaning derives from...a double-blind, randomized clinical trial? And implied quotes??? Does that mean you can just quote someone and change their words according to whatever subjective interpretation you have? Quote this: Dur.
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"f*** both of you idiots" you can trust when you can trust yourself.
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I can trust but never love another...To me trust is a material thing.Love is eternal.
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I'm not going to debate on your post. I will say from past experience, I lost the greatest Love of my life this way! I just needed space to get my shit together, but couldn't get it together in time, and ended it poorly. Talk to him, tell him how you feel. You may never get a second chance. I didn't....
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