Like sex games? Stupid b**** games? Video games? Or what kind of games are we talking?
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  It doesn't matter what kind of games, because as I see it, this person sacrificed many things, over time, in succession, including a job (income), friends (companionship), almost her house (sanctuary), and for someone she describes as playing effing games.  So s/he had an oppotunity, many, many, many times over, to end what sounds like a self-destructive relationship, and then, here, sums it up as "I'm gonna lose it."  LOSE WHAT?  Didn't you already lose a job, friends, and nearly your home? What are you going to lose now, your mental health?  It's ridiculous. You've just proved either you're in love with a user and you don't care, or, you value this self-destructive relationship more than your job, friends, and house. So what's your beef? You made this choice, over and over and over again.  Here's the secret you should have typed:  I am in a relationship with someone who cost me a job, my friends, and nearly my house, and I'm still hanging in there, and the reason is .......... (and then you tell us).
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  Same here 12 years... No housework, no cooking, nothing... never even worked. 
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  i have to defend the poster,its not easy and wont get any easier, but i went through it too for three years wanting her to change and after three years i realized the only person u can change is yourself, so do what im doing....change for yourself and your family and the rest will fall in place. Or at least i have faith it will
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  you will feel so much better when you leave him. i did.
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  or her.
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  Oh grow up and take some responsibility for your own actions, f***wit.
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  The real question is why did you do all this for someone who plays games? The answer probably has a lot to do with your own priorities, expectations and self-image.
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  alot of truth in all of these,  
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  So now you see it. Male or female, Strangers have responded to your plea for help. So, do something about it before it goes any further. Dover
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  funny how people enable others to behave like idiots and then whine because that person won't change.
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