| Maybe all the efforts are filling a need that was not met in this "savior's" life.  If this daughter is still a minor, it maynot all be for naught.  If this young lady is grown and demanding support, it is good that your friend has you there for encouragement. 
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  | I can understand your thoughts...however, they is probably doing the right thing for themselves and the daughter...sometimes children take advantage of their parents...I am that parent at times...its worth it. 
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  | Holy Crap!  I wish someone had told me what the future would hold for me and my daughter.  She is a useless sponge who turned her back on her family when the 'perks' ran out.  Sickening, but we are better off for her deciding to leave. 
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