My mother died a year and a half ago. I thought I was ready for it - she was ultimately a good mother, but we had issues and "garbage" too. Turns out I wasn't ready. She was in pain and yet tried so hard to keep living. Its tearing me apart. A relative few people 'deserve' to die or to not have loved ones by their side while they do. I don't know what she did to you, but my advice: do it anyway. You might change your mind when you see what she has to endure, and perhaps it will bring you closer. Once she is gone, you will have no more chances. I thank God I was there for my Mom when she needed me most. Best to you...
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Trust me I went through the same thing with my grandma she put me through hell and I took care of her bathed her wiped her ass cooked and cleaned for her in the end she was still the same a ungreatful greedy b****I hate that I wasted my time on her thinking she would change
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My mother died of cancer almost three years ago due to lung cancer. She put me through hell growing up, but once she got sick. I was the one she turned to, we had a chance to right some of the wrongs and the ones she couldn't she explained her reasoning. If it wasn't for her getting sick I would have never understood-not that I would do the same but I at least understand. Take the chance and understand her-you might be suprised
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"Teach your children well, their father's hell did slowly go by...' Crosby, Stills Nash and Young. We can never know what made our parents what they were. Learn to forgive her, don't let her die alone. She isn't really responsible for her actions just as you CAN be responsible for yours if you grow beyond the past. My dad was a not a great father and put 7 of us through a life of fear, now he's gone and I realize how his life made him what he was, as life and environment affexct us all. Some can grow beyond others cannot. Good luck and just try to love her in her last days. She may learn something from you!
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You'll get it back. Remember your words because they'll come back to haunt you.
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No, I wont get it back,Im not the crack whore she was/is, I am an awesome mother, and know the my children will never have to endure growing up in the hell she brought me., SHE is getting HERS back.
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So let me get this straight...because she was a "crack whore" she deserves a slow painful death? Are you kidding me? How can you be a better Mother with all the anger that you still have toward her? Your children will grow up and remember and probably resent or hate a Mother who was so angry, that couldn't give herself completely. Let it go and find some peace before your Mother leaves otherwise you will regret it the rest of your life. Have you thought that maybe she wishes she could have been different for you but she didn't know how? Oh and I take it back this won't haunt you, it already is.
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It looks like you removed my comment. I wonder why? That's just odd.
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What comment?
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Depending on the cancer, she probably will. Karma, it is a beautiful thing.
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You didn't remove my comment, I made a mistake. Sorry.
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