there is no such thing as uncurable cancer. most cancers don't have cures. but it doesn't mean they are unbeatable. your family may be able to commiserate and share the burden with you. maybe even find a way to fight it with you. good luck. I'm very sorry for you. Stay strong. its not over till its over.
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I'm sorry. You do need to tell your family. Don't keep it inside, I'm sure your family can help you through this.
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I am a doc in houston There is a best cancer centre in M>D> Andrerson hosp. Can i help u get there?
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My faith in man and the medical field has just been restored. Doc in Houston, you are an angel. Let him help you young lady.
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Hi,
I read your post.I just found out I might have breast cancer.I have an appointment tomorrow @ Wilford Hall @ Lackland Air Force Base.My sister in law had breast cancer,she had all her Chemotherapy and the double mastectomy @ MD Anderson in Houston,TX.It is the best Cancer Hospital in the world.My sister in law and my brother would travel to Houston from Brownsville every Friday for her treatments.Talk to the Doc from Houston ,you will be in good hands.As for me,I know that I will be ok,I know it will be a long ride but God is with me and that is all that matters.Please tell your family,you are going to need them.
You are in my prayers
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I'm so sorry. If there is anything I can do please let me know. You are in my thoughts. I have been through similar things before, yet somehow I am still here, although managing to still screw up my own life. :-*
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Honey as scared as you are you need to tell your family, you can't fight this battle alone.You are in my thoughts and prayers. Get a hold of the Dr. in TX and remember there is always hope.
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my grandmother die from cancer along timeago.but the one thing i learned from her it's never over just a new beginnings.and i wasn't sure what that ment till i went threw som ething simular to that.the key thing is the will power to survive.and family you should tell your family it will help
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my sister has acute myloid leukemia , it might not be what you have but shes your age with a three year old and no medical insurance I so I feel for those in these kinds of shoes. Let God be the one who helps you do this, tell them when the time is right , give him all your glory because hes our saviour let him be just that!
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Get a second Opinion and be sure.
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I think i might have thyroid cancer.. i don't know, Im too scared to go to the doc. but i have all the symptoms. I wish you the best. Take care.
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May you reach out to the ones that love you.
God Bless u!!
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Please, please, tell your family. Don't shut them out. Let them share in whatever time you have left -- there could be many years ahead of you.
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I was told i had terminal cancer with less than a year to live....that was 12 years ago. And still, here I am. I decided I would go when I say and how I say...Dr Ron Levy at Stanfford University Hosp was the one who helped me. If you need to talk please connect with oncochat.org
I started this site when i was first dx'd lots of members to talk with.
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You need your family more than ever now-thet will be with and help Cancer Center Of Americia
Look it up on google-They saved my wife 10 years ago.
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please go and tell your family right away - there are strangers that care about you, imagine how much support your family will be? my mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in Feb 08 - the worst kind around. guess what? she beat it! never say un-cureable! xo
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My dad was told he'd be dead by my 6th birthday. He went through 6 doctors. I'm 37 and he's still alive and just came to my wedding. Hug them! Invite them into your life and live every second you can with them. That's what we've done. They will help you fight.
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Withholding who you are and your truth only adds to the dis-ease in your body - let go and release ....
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Please, let your family help you.
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tell your family . they love you and need to
know. they will help you through this,
ill be praying for you .
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by telling them you have uncureable cancer.
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sorry
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For real i think the only doctor who'll really help you big time is in lebanon,beirut,
nwayre in the buidling opposite to
a supermarket by the name ( matahin libnan)
he does alternative medecine and nutrition
trust me i think he will help
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I'm sorry. Maybe the doctors are wrong. Good luck.
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ya know...they gave me 2 months...that was two years ago. Get a second-third anf forth opinions. As long as your not in pain....dont sweat it, Death is a part of life, if you know when it's commng you have already beat 95% of the fear let meds take care ofg that last 5% so you can enjoy whats left, then...it's off to a new advrnture....please dont be afraid....I can hold your hand! I'm just on the waiting pad to :)
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Hopefully the OP will see this! You cna beat it of you want to and you will need thre support of your family and friends to do it
*cancer survivor*
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my father was diagnosed with prostate cancer. My mother was terrified for him for the rest of her life. She died at 87, and more than 30 years after his diagnosis, he's healthy, cancer free, and over 90.
You need your family, and they deserve to know. the change in you will be obvious, they know something's up.
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My heart breaks for you.Trust in god
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Try everything and anything.There are miracle cancer stories everyday.God be with you and I will pray for you tonight.
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Go MACROBIOTIC immediately! Do a search on Christine Pirello. She was diagnosed with cancer and was told she was going to die in her twenties- as all the women in her family had. Twenty years later she writes about the diet that saved her life- and had married the doctor that put her on the diet. Basically, it's RAW VEGETABLES. But read about it, it's worth it. God Bless You. (Weird spacing to get your attention)
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If you choose to battle this, good luck to you. If you loose the fight, it will be a new adventure. Get with Hospice and your spiritual leader. Tell your family and get the crying over now so you can live a-little more. You're not alone but death is the only thing you have to learn to do all by your self. Learn this by living for now.
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I have been a nurse for 16 years and for more years than that, I have been interested in and studying different forms of healing. We are here on this earth to learn. What there is for you to learn from this, only you can say. It might be that you need to learn how to turn to your loved ones for support. It might be that you need to learn how to be vulnerable. It might be that you and your loved ones must learn how to come together in love and support of each other and work through this. It's possible that, whether you live or die from this disease is secondary to what you need to learn and experience from going through it. It might be that you need to learn the power of manifesting in your life and that you can manifest a healing. Fear will block you from finding your path. Start getting in touch with your support system, both the people you love and the inner guidance you and I and all of us have. You are on a journey, take it without fear. It's not the destination that matters most, it's the journey and how we walk our path that matters. One more thing. The body is truly amazing. It is working at all times to keep us healthy. Learn to work with your body as it does everything it can to heal itself. Fear will only block that. Let go of the outcome. Take each day, each minute as it comes. Know the love that surrounds you and have faith. Miracles are common place when you start allowing yourself to see them.
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You have to jus come right out with it they will cry some but you will be happy to have them on your side. Keep you hope high but be ready for the worst. Cheer up it could be worst you could have my life
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What Cancer Cannot Do
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot destroy peace.
It cannot kill friendships.
It cannot suppress memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot invade the soul.
It cannot steal eternal life.
It cannot conquer the Spirit.
* This is on a sign in the infusion room at the Huntsman Cancer Institute in SLC, Utah. It was a great strength to my mom in her battle. God be with you. Surround yourself with loved ones to bear you up, wipe your tears, and laugh. God gives us family for a reason - to be there. :)
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May GOD bless you and claim you as His very own as he heals your disease and calms your heart.
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They told me the same thing when I was your age. Ovarian that spread through almost all my organs. They said I had 2 years max, and that, my dear friend, was 7 1/2 years ago. They dont know everything. But dont worry about telling everyone. Just tell someone. This is too much of a burden to carry yourself. Pick a friend/lover/companion/family member who will be there, no matter what... and prepare to fight. We only fail at that which we do not try to accomplish.
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God Bless You, dont give up! Life is worth every once of strength you have. New cures and treatments come evry day. My prayers are with you.
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You need to share and surround yourself in their love and support. Also you need another medical opinion at a major hospital such as Johns Hopkins Etc... I will lift you up in my prayers as our great physician ( Jesus Christ ) is our ROCK and HOPE and he can provide the knowledge and healing needed to get you through this. In Christian Love...Mark
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I believe the only reason that you are feeling woried about it is because it is cervical cancer, am I correct? Noone will look down on you..and most families, if they are families at all will be very understanding of your conditions despite how you have developed the disease. I myself have HPV I don't like telling the whole world but hell I might as well say it, which causes cervical cancer in women. My family understands that I have a lifelong disease and are still very supportive of me. I don't feel so bad because 80% of the population has this in some form or another. Things will work out. Cheer up babe I am 22. :)
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Look up Vitamin B-17. Its called Laetrile. You'll be amazed at what it does to cancer! Also, look up juicing and the fungus link to cancer. Most cancer's are actually fungus.
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It will be hard, But they will be the best support you can get, and having that support, will make getting through it, and really living through it, much easier. and less of a shock/painfull for them, when/if it comes.
and... really look into alternative medicines. what have you got to loose?
Look up Essiac tea on google. :-)
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My heart goes out to you. Embrace your family and keep fighting. Death smiles at us all. All we can do is smile back.
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You should tell your family. Noone should ever go through this alone. "Curable" or not.... positive outlook has scientific basis for improving outcomes. Its hard to always be positive alone, sometimes you need to be able to borrow some "positive" from someone else.
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What is the reason you would not tell your family?
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Getting rid of cancer is not difficult. You MUST however make some changes in your lifestyle, primarily, what you eat. If you will be willing to eat ONLY RAW, UNCOOKED FRUITS and VEGETABLES, drink only purified water (NOT distilled), and eat RAW ALOE VERA (slit the leaf with a sharp knife, scoop out the goop inside, and eat it or mix it with some juice. [do NOT eat the skin or green parts - unlus you are constipated, then... stay close to a toilet]) aloe is an aquired taste - you'll get used to it!
Cancer occurs about 10,000 times a day in the average human, and one's immune system kills it. When one's immune system is overloaded because of having to deal with too many toxins, drugs, junk food, pollution, exposure to viruses, bacteria, etc., a cancerous cell can get a "foothold" and grow and thrive. Clean up your Diet and Environment, and stay away from anything that will harm your body. when the "toxic input" is decreased, your immune system will be able to do it's job and kill the cancer.
It's up to you, it's your body and your life!
More people die from radiation and chemotherapy than from the actual cancer! Clean up your input so your immune system can do it's job. Oh, and if you ask JESUS (the Lord God) to help you, He is the greatest healer of all. Don't knock it 'til you've tried it (don't knock it, period!)
With love, and, I'll pray for you.
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God will not take you where the grace of God will not protect you. Believe in God for he has chosen you to come live with him, it doesn't get better than that. God Bless you and keep you
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My condolences to you dear. You have no choice but to tell your family about your condition. When should they find out when you are admitted to the hospital because it's too late to do anything else to save you? You need the support of your family right now. Tell them and let them help prop you up. Ask the lord for help because he will you know. My 3 yr old went through supposedly incurable cancer but he'll soon be 13 and going strong..... Good Luck!
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Don't give up! If your doctor can't figure it out, go elsewhere. Tell your family. You will be better off. Good luck.
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I wish I could be there with you right now to hold you up a bit and help you tie on "the gloves" I can't get in the ring with you but I can be in your corner!
C'MON! FIGHT!
I'm not just talking out my ^ss. March 27th was four years cancer free for me! (stage 4 throat cancer)
By the way, MD Anderson is HUGE in cancer care. Let that Dr. in Houston help you!
95% of your cure is going to come from the neck up! BELIEVE you are going to be cured! You're alive now, that means you're ALREADY a cancer survivor!
One more thing...your cure is a gift from God. That doesn't mean there's going to be a lightning bolt and a voice from the sky. It means God will put your cure in the hands of talented Doctors!
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Hi: Tell you family
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