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My husband wants a divorce and I don't.. I love him and it hurts me I cry myself to sleep every night but to him I pretend I don't care...I miss you so does she

My husband wants a divorce and I don't.. I love him and it hurts me I cry myself to sleep every night but to him I pretend I don't care...I miss you so does she

 
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Why would you hide your feelings? Why does he want out? Why don't you fight for yourself, your daughter and your marriage? How can you just sit back and allow this to happen? What can you do to change his mind? Did he love you once? Can't you see him loving you again? Have tou even tried to make this right? Only you an make a difference!!! Nothing worthwhile in life is easy. FIGHT for it!!!
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I am tired of fighting for it his family doesn't like me and mine doesn't like him....I think his family is talking him into us seperating because he was fine till he lived with them.....so I guess he would rather listen to them then us have a family.
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He can find his own "perfect" new wife, but there will Only be One perfect mother for your child and that's YOU! I'm sorry you're hurting, but don't make it worse for your little girl. Peace. :)
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If you don't at least try to save your marriage and tell him how you feel, you will forever regret it. How will you feel when your daughter asks "why didn't you just ask him to come back"? You are worth it, he is, and your daughter is. Family will interfere, but it is only up to you to fight for what you want.
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Don't hide how you feel. It will only make it worse. I know I've been there. I did not want a divorce when my wife left a few years ago, I told her but it did not change anything as she was screwing one of my friends.
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I already told him how I feel....he said that we both know it would never work....and that he is done... I can not force someone to be with me....I had turned into someone different because I have a hormone problem and my drs cant find the right medicine to work....so I was majorly moody and depressed and he had to deal with that....I still am and my stupid freaking drs are still not helping...I have never thought about suicide before and hate the thought....but its not me its the depression making me think like that and I need help and can't get it...last night it took all my strenth not to take a knife and cut my wrist...I was in the kitchen and had it to my wrist....then my daughter woke up....hopefully dr will do something before it actually happens cause I am so close to killing myself and I don't want to....I used to always think people were crazy that would talk like this but I have tried everything and can't escape these feelings I wish I could
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You need time to find yourself. If you are that close to suicide than you daughter should be with him. You need to live for you daughter, and for yourself. You need to show her that a person can move on even though their heart has been broken. I wish you all the luck in the world.
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You say you do not want a divorce now. I was the same way several years ago. After it was over and I viewed it in hindsight, I realized it was a mess that needed to end. Don't think because of your kid that you need to return to the marriage. It will never be the same, you will not be happy and neither will he. Your kid will be very tuned into that and the child will be affected. Just get a divorce and correct your mistakes.
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when its all said and done,who will be the blame?i miss my wife and baby so much that i let it totaaly run my world into the ground.id give anything to have my family back,anything.she asked me to leave them alone and out of respect i have,and have wanted to die ever since.i should have never gave up the fight.life is to short,you should enjoy every last minute with those you love.when you finally realize that its all gone it just destroys a persons worth.find him cause if hes anything like me,nothing would matter more
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Meds are making you crazy! Go to the nearest pharmacy with ALL yourprescriptions. Pharmacist will be glad to tell you side effects, druginteractions, etc. Ask him for a referral to a shrink, and take all the bottles and pills with you. His ( Your husband's family ), knows you are acting crazy and are a danger to your child as you are now! For God'ssake, take your child to a safe place away from you,'til you get this straightened out! He and his family will see you in a whole new light!This is NOT hopeless!! Move it! Now! God will provide all that you need.I promise!!! Hugs.
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im still in love with her!the past few months have seemed like forever.i feel like im in a maze but all the doors are shut.ive lost my co-pilot,my teammate,my love,my wife!therefore i contemplate suicide every day myself.life is to short to go day by day trying to find your love.i find myself dying a little more each day!my love to you ALWAYS Ash@Liv!if its true itll all come back,i hope
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May be you need to show your love little more, get in shape and ask yourself what he really would make him happy.as a man good food and clean house and SEX.
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