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These 3 yrs with u have ruined a lifetime of confidence.

These 3 yrs with u have ruined a lifetime of confidence.

 
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You have read my mind and heart.
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The loss of Self is a very dark place to live. Do what ever it takes to restore your soul. A person like that is just a black hole of emotional need and you can not fill it. Leave before it's too late!
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Since you know this already put two and two together...getting out will restore you.
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I can definitely relate. Except that I didn't have the confidence in the beginning. Being with him for the 4 years just made it worse. Now that we aren't together. I feel free and alive.
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NO, you ruined your confidence and endured it for 3 years get some backbone and be the strong woman we were made to be.
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The men who do that to a woman have no self respect so they bring you down with them. Just get out now and don't look back. There is life beyond.
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ouch
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Chrissy, I saw secret and knew you wrote it. Just remember: like a phoenix from the ashes you will rise. I got your back Betch, always have
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It took less than six months of being with my ex to do that to me. Once you get them out of your life FOR GOOD (and that took awhile for me to do), you will begin to heal.
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Don't make it 4.
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I have looked back and said "I would never seek to be in that place again, but I learned so much about myself from being there that I would not erase the pain and misery even if I could". If it doesn't break us and isn't lifelong it makes us stronger.
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If you have not been there, you won't understand. I understand - find the confidence inside yourself - you are the apple in God's eye and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. God can help you heal. Joel Osteen and Joyce Meyers can help too. Also prayer lines.
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What happens to a person is not as important as what happens WITHIN that person.Attitude is the leading factor in life.
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Go now!
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I could have posted this. Don't be afraid to be a b****... assert yourself. If he does not like it, he'll leave.... turn your back on him as he closes the door.
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GET THE F**K OUT OF THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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maybe you should have listened when he asked you to work on keeping your figure, maybe you shouldnt have waited until your ass looked an old beat up parkinglot, maybe you should have made an effort not to get that dam pouche of a tummy you hide in your pants, maybe you shouldnt have went from a hot b**** to a fat b****, because i put up with a hot b****, cuz shes hot, but since that went away, there is no f***ing reason i should have to put up with it, b****hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Let me spell it out for you-- L~E~A~V~E~ him/her N~O~W. You obviously know that's what's best for you!! I wish you lots of luck!!
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Guilty. I spent a year with a woman who tried to get me to love her, but I couldn't and I treated her badly. I regret it. Sorry
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I could have written this post as well... I totally understand what you are going through.
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You are not alone...and it will not be an easy road, but you will get back there. I speak from experience.
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IDK
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