Take from someone that's been cheated on: It's REALLY not worth it. Just leave them both. If you do this, you'll cut a ton of drama out of your life which will save you alot of headaches in the very near future. I wouldn't go blaming her, he's the one that cheated on you. If it wasn't her, it would've been someone else.
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I have agree it is not really worth it. You must come to the conclusion that cheating occurs because there is something fundamental miss in the relationship. You will need to decide/discover what it is and move on. It could be as simple as you are not satisfying as he would like or you are a 'Fat Pig'.
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Why don't you kill the guy if you are so determined to kill someone anyway. One less cheater for the world to worry about.
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(I posted this) I am still with my husband because I do love him, and because he came to me, even with a std scan (negative) saying he royaly f***ed up. I am giving him a chance because at the time we where mad at each other, and he took it out like that.Reason to kill her: She has been bad mouthing me since I've known her, and to my In-Laws none the less. I know her just as well as my husband does, and I know what kind of person she is... She's a home wrecker. Neither my husband or I talk to her, but get this, she lives with my In-Laws. And that kills me. Im never a mean person... But she triggered me.
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That sounds like a really awful situation and I am sorry you have had to go through it but maybe it is good that you are going through it and maybe it has happened to try and motivate you to do something good for yourself. Instead of killing her which will only make things worse for you, think about why all of this triggers you. Has this sort of thing (situations where you are disrespected and not considered) been a theme in your life? You know, you deserve better than to be cheated on and have your husbands mistress living with your inlaws. Why do you allow these people to treat you in this way? These people (all including your husband) are ill and anything they do is more about them than it is about you. Time to realize this and do better for yourself. Especially if you have kids...you are teaching your kids that this is ok and the way to solve it is to kill another. Forgive these sick people for their mistakes. Forgive yourself for not finding better for yourself and move on.
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Dont kill her. Remember is is HIM that you are married to. not her. HE is the one who is responsible for not cheating. She didn't make those vows to you on your wedding day. I do feel very badly for you. I was married to a cheater. 17 other women that I know about. 2 babies behind my back. yeah. But remember...HE made those vows to you, not her. Dont sink to his level; hold your head up high, walk blamelessly, and remember: forgiving him and still 'loving' him just reassures him that he can do it again...and again...and again...
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You want to destroy your own life because of something stupid your husband did that you are trying to forgive him for. That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. He is the the one at fault, she was the means. Killing her will only destroy YOU. Your best revenge is moving on, with or without him but especially if you can repair your marriage and show her she was just another piece of ass and nothing more. Sex is not love, it is only a component of it. Sex does not require love. Love does require sex.
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Get them where it hurts. In many states you cansue the adulteress and adulterer for pain andsuffering damages. It will be much harder from jail. One more thing, you just commited assult on a public forum. I hope no else hates her enough too carry out your threat and frame you for it.
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Sue the b****.
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killing someone is never as easy as is sounds or seems. the perfect crime is never telling a soul, which people have yet to perfect. if you are going to do it, prepare yourself for the following: blood spatter, weapon, noise, control area, questions and dreams. the first 5 you may plan out and be perfect in but not every one can bare the set of eyes that stare at you while you sleep. Tezrian
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I can so relate. However it is not worth the personal cost to you. Pick your head up and leave all the crap in your dust. It can only get better from this point.
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First rule, never tell any one your planning it. That's premeditated murder and comes with a death sentence in some states. You will be a prime suspect, your husband and in-laws will dime you out. You better have a perfect air tight alibi. Or are you going to do it and take the fall? Dont forget t about the body disposal. No body, no murder. take your time and think hay your might get lucky and only get life! hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!
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Why kill HER? She didn't cheat on you. . Your husband did! But really in the spiritual world you don't have to kill anyone to get back at them. These kinds of things have a way of coming back around. Just wait and see.. your husband will end up with some horrible thing in his life that is tragic to him personally and you will know why it's happening.
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A littl note to everyone commenting: She's not going to kill her because she's telling all of us about it too much.A little note to the OP: I agree with the comment about the triggers and what causes them. HOWEVER, I think you're more just trying to keep yourself in this and other simular situations because that is how you live your life. You would feel incomplete without this kind of drama, otherwise, why would you take him back?
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Maybe if you didn't turn into a nagging fat bytch he wouldn't have cheated? or all those times he wanted to plow you in the ass and you said NO? hhahaha now he is thinking about Her when he's slamming Ole Rumpleforeskin in you!!
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Rise above it. She is not worth your effort.
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Your "inlaws" must be real crap for listening to her blab about you. They should kick her ass....unless they agree with her. If that's the case, have him kill 'em all, go to prison, and you can cheat on him with his parole officer. There's some justice for ya.
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did u do it yet????? Pussy....
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Really....maybe you'll die trying....
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Kill Her!!!...take all that energy and start packing. Believe me....We are out there to satisfy you!!!!
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hmmmm. then she wins.
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Wouldn't you rather get even???Call me
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wtf she lives with his parents? thats some f***ed u shit so shes available whenever he goes to "see mom and dad" yeah right dump that f***ing loser!!
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Been cheated on twice by my wife...first time I said ok lets try to work things out for the kids...I'm far from perfect. Three years later she did it again...this time no chance, I was out of there...despite her several attempts to "give it one more try". Neither time did I try to "get even" with either the wife, or the guys...not worth wrecking my life because she has the constant need to be the pretty pretty princess. Three years later, I am happy, my kids (whom I have 50% custody) have adjusted well, and she is still a miserable c*nt. I got my revenge by living my life to it's fullest and being happy.
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Doesn't matter if you take him back or not the relationship wont be the same. They are both at fault I would just leave the guy cuz if he loves u he would put u on a pedastal and keep u there! People don't just cheat bc the sexual part of it. Sometimes its a lot deeper like the arousal of knowing its a chance or some f***ed up fetish. Who knows? You will never truely know anyone you are around... even ur husband bc he is to u what he wants u to see. People are disgusting.
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