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I can only get off sexually if I fantasize I am raping a woman.

I can only get off sexually if I fantasize I am raping a woman.

 
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You're SICK!
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some guy has the same fantasy about you,and can't wait for you to get to jail.
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WTF, People??? He said the FANTASIZED about raping a woman, not ACTUALLY doing it...A LOT of women get off on fantasizing they are being raped by their lover...but all of a sudden, when a guy says it, it's somehow some horrible sickness??? What is the problem if you and your partner are open and honest and you are only roleplaying??? You people need to lighten up!!!
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fantasizing is one thing, but if you can't get off without these violent images, seek help before you hurt someone or lose your mind with the shame of it
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Don't hold back, the truth will set you free!
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It's not a crime to think about it.. all you have to do is fine a woman who is into the same thing and have fun with each other.
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Watch Thai drama. The story lines on most of them have the female main character get raped by the male main character and she would fall in love with him and that how the story ends.
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in life i'm a dominate female, but in bed i long to be dominated, rape fantasy is my main wet dream. i havent found a guy yet that is completely into it and i know thats good, but just once i want him to MAKE me have sex with out being afraid of the noise i'll make or the terrified look in my eyes, its an act, all for show.
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So you have issues with insecurity and personal power. Wouldn't it be nice if you could actually "make love" with someone without fantasizing about commiting violence against them? Wouldn't it be nice to have a mutually supportive and connected sexual encounter? Do you ever worry that one day you might lose control of your impulses and actually carry out your fantasy? Where would that leave you and the person you were with? You need help. You need to heal whatever it is inside you that wants to be violent and controlling. You need to discover another source of personal power.
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Let me guess... You're black?
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I had rape fantasies and still do( I am a woman) my husband was aware of this and has raped me at least 3 times..literally raped me..no it wasn't great no I didn'tlike it really. Fantasies are meant to stay that way. Once made into reality they f***ing blow, and not in a good way. Like threesome gang bang orgies all gross and wierd same with rape fantasies all weird when acted out..yuck.
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Sex=Violence... plain and simple.
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I have a fantasy of raping the OP with a broomstick - is that OK?
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most of the comments here are retarded. it's healthy to have fantasies. if you ever ACT upon them, that is only okay if the other person agrees. I am a woman and I understand this fantasy very very well.
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What happens when someone who thinks like the OP crosses the lines and rapes your wife or mother? He may be talking about whacking off in some park where your kids play.
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Thoughts are energy. What you think will eventually manifest if you think it often enough. Fantasy is fine, just find a fantasy that is empowering to both parties. Make your new fantasy be about you being a god and your woman being a goddess and everytime you reach a climax new universes exploding into creation... that is where true power is found, not this false power of dominating and being violent over another.
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I just fantasized about blowing your brains out.
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LIsten to the violence from the comments and yet the OP was merely stating something. This violence in humanity is the core of our primal being. The seat of our very minds is the amygdala, the part of the mammalian brain which lends itself to rage, anger, and violence...The Survival of Man, is the rape of our very being...To rape, express sexual violence, to dominate is but yet another of our very means of survival. Look around your world you are a product of rape. Every Y chromosome in existence has spent it's time swimming in the testicles of a warlord.It is merely an expression of true masculinity. Any man who say otherwise is denying who he really is. Men take and seek forgiveness later.
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I am a woman
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I think this may stem from insecurity on your part. Perhaps if you take the womans willingness out of the situation, it also takes the pressure off of you (to make sure that she is satisfied, that you are large enough, that you don't smell funny, that you have hair in the right places ect)? Are you like this in committed relationships as well? Or have you ever had a relationship?
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Why are we judging? Are u all perfect? I LOVE when my husband does this to me, and I am not SICK, PERVERTED, and neither is he. The OP was being honest and it was a secret fantasy, not a confession of an act!
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So you love sex and you feel threatend by women hence the rape part.... Grow some balls or have them chopped off.....I'd prefer the latter
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I am a woman and I kind of do the same thing when I mastrubate in the shower. If a co-worker pisses me off or makes me insecure I imagine holding her head down there so she half drowns giving me oral pleasure. If she fights me I threaten to beat her or break her teeth on the side of the tub. Yep I guess it's safe to say I hate most women that put me down, or look soooo perfect.
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Im a woman and have the same fantasies about men and women. My husband does his best to be dominant. I was a dom for 9 years, so I have high standards...
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I am a woman and I want to rape a man.It's nothing more than a sexual fantasy,but try to live out a fantasy like that?Haven't found one yet who would go for it.Try to find a woman who will engage in this kind of fantasy for you and all is good,hope you find one.I can't seem to.
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