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I have no desire to have sex with my husband anymore. No sex drive at all. Whats wrong with me? All my tests are normal..Im 26!

I have no desire to have sex with my husband anymore. No sex drive at all. Whats wrong with me? All my tests are normal..Im 26!

 
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Well then you shouldn't mind him getting it somewhere else. Right?
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test results vary from lab to lab. and most doctors run blood tests which only measures how much hormones are flowing into the cell, not how much hormone is actually in the cell. go to a naturopath and get an adrenal test ordered (saliva test), it sounds like your estrogen dominate. your adrenal glands regulate your thyroid gland which is in charge of your sex hormones. have you had a baby yet? look up adrenal fatigue online, but please realize most western medicine will only make it worse (steroids...yuck!) so i would highly recommend seeking out an acupuncturist/naturopath to get you on the right track! good luck to you~
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He's already gettin it somewhere else! DUH!
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^that has nothing to do with her lack of sex drive you idiot!
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i agree, have your thyroid checked for hashimoto syndrome-just a fancy name for an underactive thyroid...get on 75mg of synthroid and start to feel normal. but don't wait and ruin ur relationship! good luck :)
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Get a new doc, the one you have isn't testing for the right things.
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maybe you just aren't interested in your husband. How do you feel about other men?
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I met a girl once who said her husband was impotent and when I finally got into bed with her I couldn't get it up. Never had that problem before or since. Maybe it's him.
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instead of synthroid take iodine supplements.
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They say the best form of birth control for women is wedding cake. j/k. Good luck.
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^I heard that the best birth control was not having any money. ^ Before doing massive amounts of research, may I suggest you analyze your diet. Are you eating healthy? Be honest? I know this may sound crazy, but eat a hot pepper. The capsaicin is great aphrodisiac. You can also get it in tablet form. If you do go the pepper route be sure you don?t give your hubby a BJ afterwards. Ouch! (zane)
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sounds like the typical marriage to me. Marriage is the surest way to screw up a great relationship.
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I had that problem with my husband for YEARS. Then we divorced, I met a new man and I'm a nympho. Get a new man.
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Try taking Argonmax. When I started taking antidepressants a few years ago, it killed what little sex drive I had. My doctor suggested it and it did help me a lot.
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Try watching porn.
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Get your hormones tested!! Only saliva testing is valid. Then get a copy of "Slim Sane
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You don't need to have a sex drive.... You just need to be present.
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Go out and run, workout, do something that gets your blood flowing! Do it everyday. It could be depression too. Fresh air and exercise!
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Yeah, since you have come to us all for medical advice, you will ahve to tell all.Are you on any prescribed (or non prescribed) drugs?How is your relationship with him apart from the sex?Do you still want the same things?Is he controlling the household, and convincing you that it is good for both of you?Do you both still sleep in a single bed?How is your self esteem? Do you like yourself?Are you able to talk this through with girlfriends?
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I always wondered how some women always have a "headache"... I'm the other way around. I've always been very sexual. I think some people are just like that. I know most husbands would LOVE to have a wife that's always ready and willing. My hubby is a lucky man!
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It's funny about the whole headache thing though... Indorphines released during sex provides a great headache relief. next time so lady tries to pull that card, you pull the card i just mentioned.. WEEE! (zane)
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Sex also releases endorphins... they are much better at stress relief than indorphines.
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you must have had numerous sexual parners before him or just had A LOT of sex before him and with him that you are now just needing a break. If you have kids too we could be the same person :o oh no I am 28. But hallelujah my sex drive has returned to me after a 2 yr run away stint. Hooray sex is awesome again :) Hang in their gurl it will cum back to you.
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3^ thanks for correcting my spelling mistake. (zane)
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Sweetie....maybe you just need a jump start. I'd be glad to hook my cables up to you and see if we could get enough juice into your system to make you turn over. If not, then maybe we might need to connect a couple of more energizers in parallel and see if that gives you the power you need. At 26 ya, I am sure there is still life in that cooshy and we can restart it.
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I had the same thing and it finally came back after I got off the pill
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I'm 22, 2 kids, and a stay at home mom. Depression is one thing that can do that, having anemia can do that, having kids can do that (lol), and the thyroid problems, there are many factors. Just got to evaluate your situation
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Were married 43years and we hadn't any sex in about 30 years. I don't like sex, intimacy or any closeness. I'm sure my wife has other ideas though. I'm a stay at home person, rather do something constructive in my shop. Wife on the other hand goes out alot male and female friends and sometimes they spend the night. I really don't care to be included with her or her friends.
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You are not alone. Good luck to you dear.
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you need to be f***ed in your ass, that always helps
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Do you have no sex drive, or just no sex drive with your husband? The answer might help you figure out what you need to do.
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You can wear heels and kick me in the balls til I squirt baby gravy all over your foot.
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tests from lab to lab ?...you like doggy style ?
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maybe there's an issue with your husband?
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I have been sucking him off daily in his office bathroom - thats why.
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When he begins an affair i hope you are more understanding of him then than you are now, idiot.
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tons of quickies
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^....that faked sex is great, pal. I love it when they lie there eating an apple or looking over your shoulder at General Hospital !
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^as long as I get mine
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^ thats not love making, thats ejaculating !
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HEY OP !!! all the guys on the loading dock are having sex with him....he couldnt care less about you.....now, clean the house up !
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Google "Sexual Anorexic" There are some great books on the subject. My husband is this. (He isn't into sex) We have to talk a LOT and he is working on it. The worst feeling, as a spouse, is sexual in-difference. Do what you can to heal this for the love of your spouse. He might say it is "ok" but it is not ok. We all need love and intimacy. I can guarantee this is not what he signed up for...the good news is you can heal...and figure out WHY you are not into sex. You just might be a "Sexual Anorexic" Look into it.
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