You feel that way because that's how you have been trained to think. I am in the same boat. It's hard to stay positive and not chase him off first. I'm trying not to think about it too much.
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Something inside you says you deserve to be abused, you do not, Get some help, THERAPY, to overcome that, otherwise you WILL Fuck Up this relationship too!
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^2 up WTF? No. You are probably one that caused some girl these problems. They are real. You need to understand that most women, especially when we are young, actually believe what you say, beleive in love, believe that you are more than a dick. After a while we realize most of you are just that. All you are, all you are worth, is that lb (if you are lucky) of flesh that few people see. You are the ones worth nothing more, because that is all you truely have to offer, certainly no heart, soul, kindness, comfort, freindship. You are the one that is worthless, and the more women you trick, the more your life will suck down the rd!
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2^ Here! Here! I'm a guy and men like the one she's talking about make me sick and embarrassed to be of their same species.
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Thats why we have professional therapists. You need to ask that question of your therapist, or you should get one. BTW, it's all about the money and therapists, like anyone else has a greedy streak and will fun the gauntlet on resolving your problem, keep you paying and returning. Have you ever wondered why it's a one hour session? It's just a piece of puzzle, that's why. One little piece, another little piece, then another. If you set with your therapist for 2 or 3 hours and really covered some ground...you'd have that puzzle together in no time.
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Thanks everyone..
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You deserve happiness! Just remember to treat him with love and adoration, and don't take his kindness forgranted. I am now married to my best friend (22 years)who has always loved me when I didn't love myself. After being in several abusive relationships you tell yourself you deserve it. Noone deserves abuse!
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