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Truth is you broke me...not sure I can love another man, but I still date. I can do it alone but she deserves a dad. Ill settle for her happiness if I have to.

Truth is you broke me...not sure I can love another man, but I still date. I can do it alone but she deserves a dad. Ill settle for her happiness if I have to.

 
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Who's that, Mommy?
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Ya...that'll work.
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That's a sad option. But it is so true, so many times. It's selfish, because the man you marry will probably be in love with head over heels and you will only have settled for the sake of your daughter. Then when you daughter gets older and moves out, you will file for divorice from him because you just "settled" and now you want to find someone and play the field. You will have stripped that man of his life, for your own purpose. Think about the other person in this, not just yourself and your child.
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So you'd marry a man because your daughter deserves a dad. What an injustice to everyone.
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everyone settles....it's what you choose to settle for that matters. i chose to settle for an older man (not rich mind you) who is by no means a don juan....but what he lacks in some area's he makes up for by showing me consistent love and support and by being a wonderful dependable person who i know cherishes me. as long as you love the person money and looks don't matter!!! holding out for the "perfect" person is stupid and you will end up lonely....who wants that?
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Remember what Louise said, in "Thelma and Louise"..... "Well..... you get what you settle for", which, I think, are wise words to live by. In the meantime, time has a way of dealing with those who try to "break" us. Mine tried to "break" me - but then he caught pneumonia and DIED and I got about $400 a month in Social Security benefits and at least I didn't have to hassle with him anymore about paying child support. On his birthday every year, I go to the cemetary - and I dance on his grave. "Hahaha, you tried to break me. And now you're WORM FOOD". Life is SWEET.
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^now that's Christmas spirit!
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Wow you totally ripped off a post from a couple months ago."Truth is you broke me...not sure I can love another man, but I still date. I only do it for him, he deserves a dad. I can't keep doing it alone forever..."
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^yeah,like the op really went through 1,000 posts just to copy that EXACT one...what an idiot!
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live you life for you and no one else.....it will come back and bit you in the ass....HARD!!!
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Settle? You're gonna' settle? You really sound like an effing prize. Drop the kid of at your mothers and go to the pawn shop and get a cheap 9mm and 1 bullet and then go eat that bullet in front of the one who "broke" you. It will save a few people a lot of grief. Either that or get over him, yourself and the fact that life is not fair, put on some snug panties and join the living.
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My child is continually asking for a new dad, a new sister, a new rat, a new dog. I gave in to the dog. When I find a man I can love and who will love me and be a great dad fine, until then I will live without and not settle. My marriage was a farce, my husband was not who I thought, and was selfish beyond, belief 303.
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Do not ruin someone elses life because you want a daddy for your child. You shouldn't have gotten knocked up in the first place. Give the child up if you can't think any more mature thought s than this.
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NEVER BE AFRAID TO LOVE. IT'S LIKE BREATHING,IT COMES NATURAL,TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE
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